Then others read the books, and try to truncate even further into articles. Then there are those who won't even read an article, and would ask you to just sum it up in a few words, etc. There's a point where it gets to wanting something for nothing. And if you're willing to sacrifice exactly nothing for a thing, not even a bit of time, do you really want it?
So that's why conveying things in person is so difficult and usually pointless - you're most likely talking to someone who doesn't really want it anyway, to them it's just idle conversation. There are exceptions, you'd just have to read the situation right.
All day at work I listen to people have conversations that parrot the msm talking points on all subjects, and I know none of them care about the truth or want to think for themselves. But they're all very self satisfied with their intelligence, to the point of smugness.
What you say here reminds me of this, from 'Meetings with Remarkable Men:'
"Father Giovanni! I cannot understand how you can calmly stay here instead of returning to Europe, at least to your own country Italy, to give people there if only a thousandth part of this all penetrating faith which you are now inspiring me.
Eh! my dear professor, replied Father Giovanni, it is evident that you do not understand man's psyche as well as you understand archaeology.
Faith cannot be given to man. Faith arises in a man and increases in it's action in him not as the result of automatic learning, that is, not from any automatic ascertainment of height, breadth, thickness, form or weight, or from perception of anything by sight, hearing, touch, smell or taste, but from understanding.
Understanding is the essence obtained from information intentionally learned and from all kinds of experiences personally experienced.
For example, if my beloved brother were to come to me here at this moment and urgently entreat me to give him merely a tenth part of my understanding, and if I myself wished with my whole being to do so, yet I could not, in spite of my most ardent desire, give him a thousandth part of this understanding, as he has neither the knowledge or the experience which I have quite accidentally acquired and lived through in my life."