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mkrnhr said:
Nathan said:
A good rule of thumb would be: don't share anything on Facebook (or other social networking sites) - and this includes private messages - that you don't want the whole world to know!
Good advice indeed! Another one should be : share only what the whole world already knows ;)
Fortunately this works both ways though. Me and my wife are currently battling a psychopath in a custody case, and printouts from his own Facebook page have been very useful as evidence of his behaviour and what he really thinks about things... c'est la vie...
 
I was sent this link :
_http://www.nytimes.com/external/readwriteweb/2009/06/24/24readwriteweb-the-day-facebook-changed-messages-to-become-18772.html
One must control the information though.
The article is funny, and what it doesn't says, is that a night squad can irrupt to your house because of your ideas and views.
 
Here is a video on youtube about facebooks privacy - that might be a little bit scary if you are not aware ;)

_http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FZH-Pm5XtoI
 
That's the link, if you want to permanently delete your account - it's well hidden ...

_www.facebook.com/help/contact.php?show_form=delete_account

Or so they claim ...
 
6 Career-Killing Facebook Mistakes


It looks like all the employers are also spying on comployee's.

_http://finance.yahoo.com/career-work/article/109267/6-career-killing-facebook-mistakes

With more than 400 million active visitors, Facebook is arguably the most popular social networking site out there. And while the site is known for the casual social aspect, many users also use it as a professional networking tool. With that kind of reach, Facebook can be a valuable tool for connecting to former and current colleagues, clients and potential employers. In fact, surveys suggest that approximately 30% of employers are using Facebook to screen potential employees — even more than those who check LinkedIn, a strictly professional social networking site. Don't make these Facebook faux-pas — they might cost you a great opportunity.

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1. Inappropriate Pictures

It may go without saying, but prospective employers or clients don't want to see pictures of you chugging a bottle of wine or dressed up for a night at the bar. Beyond the pictures you wouldn't want your grandparents to see, seemingly innocent pictures of your personal life will likely not help to support the persona you want to present in your professional life.

2. Complaining About Your Current Job

You've no doubt done this at least once. It could be a full note about how much you hate your office, or how incompetent your boss is, or it could be as innocent as a status update about how your coworker always shows up late. While everyone complains about work sometimes, doing so in a public forum where it can be found by others is not the best career move. Though it may seem innocent, it's not the kind of impression that sits well with a potential boss.

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3. Posting Conflicting Information to Your Resume

If you say on your resume that your degree is from Harvard, but your Facebook profile says you went to UCLA, you're likely to be immediately cut from the interview list. Even if the conflict doesn't leave you looking better on your resume, disparities will make you look at worst like a liar, and at best careless.

4. Statuses You Wouldn't Want Your Boss to See

Everyone should know to avoid statuses like "Tom plans to call in sick tomorrow so he can get drunk on a Wednesday. Who cares that my big work project isn't done?" But you should also be aware of less flamboyant statuses like "Sarah is watching the gold medal hockey game online at her desk". Statuses that imply you are unreliable, deceitful, and basically anything that doesn't make you look as professional as you'd like, can seriously undermine your chances at landing that new job.

5. Not Understanding Your Security Settings

The security settings on Facebook have come a long way since the site started. It is now possible to customize lists of friends and decide what each list can and cannot see. However, many people do not fully understand these settings, or don't bother to check who has access to what. If you are going to use Facebook professionally, and even if you aren't, make sure you take the time to go through your privacy options. At the very least, your profile should be set so that people who are not your friend cannot see any of your pictures or information.

6. Losing by Association

You can't control what your friends post to your profile (although you can remove it once you see it), nor what they post to their own profiles or to those of mutual friends. If a potential client or employer sees those Friday night pictures your friend has tagged you in where he is falling down drunk, it reflects poorly on you, even if the picture of you is completely innocent. It's unfortunate, but we do judge others by the company they keep, at least to some extent. Take a look at everything connected to your profile, and keep an eye out for anything you wouldn't want to show your mother.

Facebook Can Help You Get Hired … or Fired

The best advice is to lock down your personal profile so that only friends you approve can see anything on that profile. Then, create a second, public profile on Facebook purely for professional use. This profile functions like an online resume, and should only contain information you'd be comfortable telling your potential employer face to face. Having a social networking profile is a good thing — it presents you as technologically and professionally savvy. Just make sure your profile is helping to present your best side — not the side that got drunk at your buddy's New Year's party.
 
Re: 6 Career-Killing Facebook Mistakes

seek10 said:
It looks like all the employers are also spying on comployee's.

It seems this is just another reminder of the subtle corporate takeover of our daily lives. Don't dare hang out with people who may enjoy a night out, and certainly don't do it yourself, no no, that means you are completely unreliable. It won't be long before we won't be able to breath, eat, watch a movie, or listen to music without it being accepted by our corporate overlords.
 
Guardian said:
Ljubica said:
It's absolutely wonderful feeling NOT to have Facebook account :halo:

I kinda view Facebook, Myspace, topix, etc. as weapons of war...and treat them as such.

Agree, although could sound radically but it's awful how people are getting attracted to such nasty web pages :(
 
I agree with Guardian as well.

I was considering deleting my account until I noticed more and more news stories trying to label zuckerberg as a psychopath who wants to sell all of your personal data. Pretty scary. And the latest story today is now accusing him of securities fraud. Suddenly the whole "me thinks thou dost protest too much" theory set in. Could it be that the powers that be WANT us all to delete our Facebook accounts and if so, why? Could it be that we are TOO connected and sharing TOO much information with each other? Maybe they are trying to scare us into disconnecting. It seemed obvious that Iran banned Facebook to keep their youth from engaging outside of their regime (by the way, if you want some interesting inside views on iranian politics you should friend Mir-Hossein Mousavi) so why would it be a stretch that they would try to do the same here?

I could be way off base but I have decided to keep my Facebook account.
 
Hi suelarue,
We encourage all new members to make a post in the Newbies section -- something about yourself and how you found the forum, doesn't have to be long. You can read some of the other threads to see how it's done -- looking forward to seeing you there :)
 
The moral of this story is, don't put ANYTHING on your Facebook page, or anywhere else on the net, that you don't mind the whole world seeing. The same is true for email too. Email is NOT a secure form of communication either...a smart 10 year old can snag it on the fly as it passes through various routers between sender and receiver. :(
 
I'm on FB, but carefully guard what i put on there. I've seen people put their address, pics of their house and cars, and update hourly as to where they are and what they're doing. Saying things like "Going out of town for a week!" Ridiculous.

I will say this, I've re-connected with a lot of people I haven't seen in 20 years or more. Some good friends that I drifted away from but now can count on.

It's a great way to see what's going on with a lot of people, without having to spend a lot of time on the phone.

SJ
 
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