4rd Case My teacher
Now this is a total new case I found since 2012, she was my teacher in university and I still have my doubts, even if she’s not a psycho I don’t trust her.
Let me give you a description of events. She was a new teacher in college, and she is very very attractive and least with make up, I will explain why I say this in a moment. I looked at her because she was naturally pretty, she attracted a lot of eyes and well I thought it was normal for her. She caught me looking at her, I thought she was a new mate or something as she appears very young but when I found out she was a new teacher I felt so ashamed so I forgot about it. It seemed she didn't care, so I was ok with it and nobody had I problem.
The problem came when I found that as the other girl, she started chasing me, she tried so hard to have eye contact and pull my attention. At first I was confused. In one occasion I caught her scanning me, I didn’t recognized who was it till I did and then looked at her expressing doubt, she reacted looking down and then ignored me. She made it obvious she was flirting with me after doing it repeatedly. I thought she was nuts because it's prohibited in my college and because she’s 10 years older than me, but I thought I could give her a try (fool me). I found out she was getting married in a month, her husband is like a teddy bear, he loves her so much, he pays for everything, buys her a dress every once in a while, and he seems to be a very nice person, and also to have a lot of money in the bank. When I found out I didn’t felt devastated, I felt 100% rage, so disappointed a psychologist would be doing this kind of thing. I actually got angry for him not so much for me. So I tried to avoid her so hard that I guess made her try harder. The problem became worse that I got a class with her so I had to be patient, I knew it was gonna be quite a challenge.
- She changed the way she dressed; whenever she had class day with me she dressed different. She changed of dressing like a professional to a, naughty way? I can't describe it, but it was clothes that fitted her body in a way that she appeared to be looking for a partner. I'm not kidding you here, I remember I had a class when I had to expose about the concept of verbal reading (ironic), and she put a dress with a low-cut, with the complete intention to almost take out her large breast. Who in the world dresses like that to go teach at university? By this point I was feeling tired of her.
- She knows a lot about psychology and brags about it, to the point she talks to those who lack that level of knowledge as inferior beings.
- I guess she never had to use a lot of the other types of manipulation, like blackmailing or something, but she has no problems controlling people: 1) her physical appearance works wonders, she just has to smile to everyone and everyone will do whatever she asks for, even when she addresses in a rude way to them 2) she’s super intelligent 3) she appears non treating, fragile and submissive.
- She told us she's a bit paranoid. This may be due to her attractiveness, so she feels everyone’s looking at her, and yes at first but nobody gives her that much importance anyways.
- She told us "I know I look very nice, but that's because you don't know me" lol !
- She likes to be in places of high status.
- I talked about her with my schoolmates, as we realized that she was not being as honest as she says.
- At the end of the semester she heard one of my friends saying she had been hiding her tummy to appear fit - for some reason she was getting very puffy, maybe a marriage symptom or sign of depression. She thought it was me without even verifying, and she put me a lower grade, and then to my friend that did a worse work put almost the highest grade. I couldn’t brag about it, because she was not going to listen.
Body language
This is hard, because I still have my doubts. Maybe she’s just a human being stressed out by job and marriage, maybe she’s just shy and has problems connecting with people and repressing emotions. And if she became attracted to me, well then maybe she just tried to appear in front of class as interesting and trustful, using these typical methods of attraction people use these days. The problem is that she’s immature, she gets into these total contradictory behaviors it doesn’t match her words. Mature women do not like to cheat, they do not think about others in particular younger than them, nor do they flirt with others in particular her students at months before marriage. I knew this other girl who was 15 and had a boyfriend, and she preferred to break up instead of lying to him. That single clue for me is enough to doubt about how much you can trust that person, psychopath or not. This woman married and kept craving my attention.
- People that are closer to her, they've told me she's first very charming and talks to you very nicely. Then she takes you for granted forgets about you and move on to the next experience, if you do not do as she says or give her little amount of problem she then acts irritated, as if she does not want to deal with you. She starts being passive aggressive and appearing as if bored of you.
- She talks fast.
- She presents herself highly moral, but then goes to drink with her students of another group and flirts with them.
- She's a loner, she doesn't seem very interested about people. If she needs something she talks to that person, but only in those cases. She's good being alone playing with her cellphone, "reading" supposedly, or using facebook.
- She moves her hands a lot while she talks, especially when she talked about her emotional problems it was as if she was indeed, reading the expression and trying to imagine it, whenever she expressed some word that is supposed to be emotional she opened her hands towards others. . Like trying to say “do you get it?” nobody needs to break their head to understand depression because it’s part of human life. She had a hard time describing those scenarios, and by the content of what she said, it never fitted her emotional expression or voice tonality.
- The only time I've seen her express something it always needs to work best for her, when it doesn't she just does not express at all.
- Blank face and stare. As if she's either thinking deeply on the moon or she's just not there.
- Very submissive and fragile, but when nobody is looking at her or she's not in front of someone it changes fast to a very dominant body language, she walks like a male, chest out, open arms, shoulders down. She also sits like a male when she can, when she was in front of me or the school director she put a more feminine posture.
- She misunderstands everything, is like she's hypersensitive to an extreme.
- She also said she thinks so fast she then loses the trail of thought.
- She flirts with every male in college not only with me. After she flirts and they give her what she needs, she forgets them, and all of them end confused. Some of them have even told me she likes them, yeah, I thought the same thing buddy.
- One day I was talking with a female friend, and she gave us this look of pure hatred, whenever in class one female friend came to sit with me, she didn't like it at all. She would either treat my friend badly or me, the problem is that she was my teacher and I depended on the grades. She would find an excuse to separate me for some dumb excuse, and I had to submit.
After she gave us that look, it was totally different to that fragile look she portrays when she needs something, that stare was like she was ready to throw a knife. We thought we were talking loudly so we stopped, she was writing on the board everybody was talking, no reason to look at us that way. She smiled and then expressed victory lifting her face and putting her chest out.
- Once I needed help about a psychometric test she was teaching us about, she tried to touch my hand and I moved away, I looked at her wedding ring and then just focused on my work. I looked up and when nobody was looking, she was staring down at me with her eyes shining so much and with very scary eyes, like the eyes of a perverted, plus the type of smile of someone enjoying. By that moment I had an expression of total disgust, and she liked it, it was as if looking that I was affected made her happy, I guess she thought I was in love with her or something and that when I looked at her ring I felt bad.
- I was disappointed she didn’t look as what I perceived about her, but one day she went to school without make up. Her face is totally full of marks, more or less like a broken mask, totally different to how she looks with all that make up.
- The way she looked at me sometimes was scary, and I'm not to be scared unless is the devil or a spider, but this was totally odd, totally out of context. Every time she seemed to put me under pressure or under control, her face expressed joy.
- Uses a lot of perfume.
- She tried to bully me, because in one class my mates were exposing but they did such a bad job I didn't learn a thing, and then she tried to put me down. I have a lot of experience dealing with bullies so I found a way to throw her on a curve; she then looked at me confused and angry.
I am not scared of females; I adore certain traits of women. To me the real leaders are women just look at families, the healthiest the family the more they trust in the mother and the female members of it (there are exceptions of course). I've had girlfriends, and I know they are not perfect, yes I know some of them, but most of the pretty women I’ve met have morals and rules about it, they know the power they may have and they use it carefully, none of them really needs the excitement of it, they don’t crave for affection from everyone, but their families and close friends.
All that they share is that they like to have sort of minions, only the old hag did not showed sexual behavior towards me (because I know about her through my mother and her friends), they use to their advantage the victim role and the fragile appearance of women. Looks like the worse the treatment they got when children, the level of dysfunction in society. The fourth case had never been in a bad scenario, she comes from a high class family and went to the best colleges.
Be aware, she was 14 or 15 years old by the time.
