Sorry for your loss GqSoul. I hope you and your wife will be okay.
Option 2 sounds the most solid to me. I've been contemplating taking up a trade as well. One problem I thought of with carpentry is, a lot of the jobs in carpentry are in construction, which will ALSO take a major hit when housing prices drop. The drop in housing prices may be near or far down the road, due to the complexity of influences there. You will probably get a lot of personal use out of construction though either way though. That's all I came to say, heh. I'm still figuring a lot of things out as well.
Option 2 sounds the most solid to me. I've been contemplating taking up a trade as well. One problem I thought of with carpentry is, a lot of the jobs in carpentry are in construction, which will ALSO take a major hit when housing prices drop. The drop in housing prices may be near or far down the road, due to the complexity of influences there. You will probably get a lot of personal use out of construction though either way though. That's all I came to say, heh. I'm still figuring a lot of things out as well.