Laura said:Actually, there aren't many variables at all. Science, Gregory, science. Start catching up!
Strangers to Ourselves, by Dr Timothy Wilson.
You have been given a lot of amazing feedback, which I doubt you would be able to get from anywhere else. Most people won't advise a Master, and they won't be honest with a friend or colleague out of fear of losing a friend. That is why I value this place so highly, though at times it scares me so much to see the truth about myself I need to wear diapers while reading posts (sorry, sick joke).