Al Today said:
Did Heinz interfere with what may have been one his wifes' exit points?
No, he didn't violate her free will. He stole the meds and she took them. He helped her to stay alive. Because if he had violated her exit point, then wouldn't all medications and all medical care always be doing that?
Al Today said:
Maybe it was just here 'time' to die?
But how do you know if it is someone's time to die or not? If you can save someone from dying then it either wasn't their time, or you overpowered the universe's decision to kill them, or the "time to die" is open. And you could say that for absolutely anything you ever do. You can have a bagel in the morning and say "What if it wasn't my time to have a bagel?". Does such a question matter though? You had the bagel, that's all you know - you cannot know what the universe intends, you can only know what is or is not within your power to do, and why you do it. So personally I'd look at it from that perspective, and not attempt to guess what was or was not the "fated" outcome at that particular moment.
Al Today said:
But you cannot know that. Either you ask that question for everything or for nothing. If you ask it for everything you cannot do anything at all for fear of doing something that wasn't fated. If you ask it for nothing, then you must have different criterea for making a decision to do something, osit.
Al Today said:
Perhaps he was a little selfish in attempting to play god?
But who is to define what actions fall into the idea of "playing god" and which fall outside of this?
Al Today said:
How about this: What should be, Will be, Eventually. No matter what Heinz does anyway...
Ok, but what if there is no such thing as "should"?
Al Today said:
In letting her go, pain is part of life, and a lesson too...
Ok, but saving someone and helping life continue to live in the face of circumstances that threaten to destroy it - is that not also a lesson? The lesson could be that we're not alone in this universe, that we're in this situation together, and so there are others that care for us and can come to our rescue and help us just as we can help them in their time of need. Is that not what STO is all about - to realize that this is a group effort, that the point of life is for ALL not just for yourself.
Maybe all her life his wife denied the help of others and thought that she didn't need anyone, that she can do everything herself. The universe could easily be teaching her a lesson that nobody can make it alone in this universe, that's why the universe is full of life instead of just one being in an empty universe. And she could learn this meaningful lesson only by being saved by someone when she, for the "first time" in her life, could not save herself. It could be a good shock to her system, a realization that she depends on everyone else for her existence, that nobody can survive without others, and it's a dangerous illusion to hold.
Besides - what's a little broken glass worth? A life?