Just saw this article covering the tragic story of a detransitioned man Ritchie Herron from the UK, who medically transitioned 9 years ago to become a woman, has been on hormone replacement therapy ever since and 5 years ago he underwent genital reassignment surgery. In March 2022, Herron publicly came out as detrans.
He is full of grief and anger, feels like he has been butchered psychologically and physically, he is angry at everyone who let this happen to him, as at that time he was, according to him, obsessive and deeply unwell. He is painfully reminded on a daily basis 'of his own stupidity'. He took his story on twitter but some of his tweets got removed as they were mass reported, but he is not going to allow that to silence him. A ghastly story. I think he does what he can to help others and warn people out there, he is involved in detrans advocacy, appears on podcasts, writes about his experience and is a member of Genspect’s team, an international alliance of professional groups, parents, trans people, detransitioners, and others who advocate for a better model of care than the current “affirmative” approach.
I looked at that Genspect website, and saw that one of the members is Keira Bell, a 25 year old UK woman, who at the age of 16 began the process of a sex change with help of Tavistock's GIDS and University College of London, taking hormone blockers, cross-sex hormones and then surgery. After 6 years, she discovered all those drugs were leading to negative physical and mental effects and she joined a judicial review case against Tavistock GIDS to challenge the idea that under 18s could give informed consent to this experimental and harmful treatment. In first instance, the court ruled that the doctors of teenagers under 18 may need to consult the courts for authorisation for medical intervention. As a result of the decision, Tavistock's GIDS suspended new referrals for puberty blockers and cross-sex hormones for the under-16s. However, and this should not come as a surprise, Tavistock GIDS appealed and the Appeal court ruled in September of last year that doctors, not judges, can decide on the capacity of under-16s to consent to medical treatment.
Hope that by telling his story he can make a difference in someone's life.
Here's what he wrote on Twitter, in his own words, as copied from his Twitter thread:
Dude needs to take personal responsibility instead of blaming everyone else - if he had done his homework and paid attention to glaringly obvious signs that such a path was not right for him, he wouldn't be in this situation - it's not as though we're talking about a child.
I want to tell everyone what they took from us, what irreversible really means, and what that reality looks like for us.
No one told me any of what I’m going to tell you now.
Historically - and, historically is relevant, because he started going through with this 9 years ago - trans people were obsessive about researching and gathering as much information as possible about these things. Transitioning is a pretty extreme thing, how could anyone go through with it without knowing as much as possible?
I tore a sutra 4 days post recovery, they promised to address it, i begged them in emails to fix it, they scorned me instead.
Years later, I have what looks like a chunk of missing flesh next to my neo-vagina, it literally looks like someone hacked at me.
They still wont fix it
Why was he jumping around 4 days post-op? When I did this - the rule was ~19 days of bed rest - and everything was packed and bandaged very carefully. They won't fix it because they probably can't.
No one told me that the base area of your penis is left, it can't be removed - meaning you're left with a literal stump inside that twitches.
This has been known for 50+ years (NSFW link) - again, why would somebody get surgery without doing their homework?
My sex drive died about 6 months on HRT and at the time I was glad to be rid of it, but now 10 years later, Im realising what im missing out on and what I won't get back.
This is about the strongest possible indicator that one is transitioning for the wrong reasons - the opposite reaction is what is desired - but at any rate, ~80% of these cases of transvestic fetisthists undergoing 'the surgery' wind up inorgasmic.
Because even if i had a sex drive, my neo vagina is so narrow and small, i wouldn't even be able to have sex if i wanted too.
And when I do use a small dilator, I have random pockets of sensation that only seem to pick up pain, rather than pleasure.
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Then theres the act of going to the toilet. It takes me about 10 minutes to empty my bladder, it's extremely slow, painful and because it dribbles no matter how much i relax, it will then just go all over that entire area, leaving me soaken.
So after cleaning myself up, I will find moments later that my underwear is wet - no matter how much I wiped, it slowly drips out for the best part of an hour.
I never knew at 35 I ran the risk like smelling like piss everywhere I went.
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And finally, theres dilation, which is like some sort of demonic ceremony where you impale yourself for 20 agonising minutes to remind you of your own stupidity.
Again, this is 'user error'. Post-op paperwork spells out 2x/day for an hour each time for the first year of recovery, with dilators progressively increasing in size. After the first year, it needs to be about an hour per week, although vigorous activity with a suitable male partner can reduce that burden. 'Agonizing' and bladder problems are utterly predictable consequences of failure to keep up with maintenance.
During transition, I was obsessive and deeply unwell, I cannot believe they were allowed to do this to me, even after all the red flags.
Why didn't he see the red flags and decide to stop?
People going mad after doing this sort of thing for the wrong reasons has not been a new concept for 50 years - maybe a compassionate response would be in order if he admitted his contributions to his plight, but instead, no, he wants to blame others for his life not being unicorns and rainbows.