Turgon said:
Jasmine said:
And the way I am, I would not select just anybody. It would take me many months if not longer to assess somebodies knowledge, awareness, and ability as a potential safe quality candidate for that endeavor. I felt that I could draw this person into my life by meditation and asking my guides. I'm now under the impression it would be even more helpful to have more than just one other person, which extends my original concerns.
How else could that be represented? And it's a little more than troubling if you want to get involved in experimenting with a spirit board when you are meditating to guides of some sort who may very likely be attachments,
Why does it need to be represented any other way? I don't believe everything "out there" is malevolent. And I believe that people have guides that will help them when called upon, and sometimes may even help or intervene in a crises situation when not called on.
to draw people into your life for the purpose using the board. However way you want to justify your motivations by saying you want to enhance natural connections to the "right" people still is worrying because if you are 'listening' to these guides, you might already by 'hypnotized' by the messages or whatever that's coming your way.
You're correct in that the motivation is to "draw people into my life" for that purpose. However, saying "enhance natural connections to the "right" people", was to put it into proper context for you because of your suspicion of the original phrase.
The motivation I hope was made clear in the full paragraph of my original post. To further expound on your concern of motivation: If I have the intent to start experimenting with the spirit board, it's not something I would want to do alone. I would therefore start taking steps to meet people who're experienced. As a cautionary measure to help me select the "right" people, I would put out the intent to the universe and my guides for help in connecting to the "right" people.
When we express our intent out to the universe, it will materialize eventually. If you keep the intent held in your mind, eventually you will end up doing things in your physical life that will bring you into direct or indirect contact with your desires or intent.
I don't "listen" to guides. I just have the belief that they are there, and when called upon for added guidance or safety, they help if necessary. The outcome is not in a form of message, and does not come in verbal form, it may manifest in various ways in my personal life or in my environment. It's not a whole lot different than sending out intent to the universe. If you asked me what the difference is, I would say that I view "guides" as more of a personal resource for guidance and safety. Whereas sending out intent to the universe is something we basically do anyway in our daily thoughts. But to do it intently, would be to bring emphasis onto a specific desire or goal.
I hope I resolved any concerns about being hypnotized by guides.
Laura said:
This is so, so, SO true! If I've seen it once, I've seen it a hundred times! How many people ask "for my guides" or "my highest good" and naively believe that there are good fairies out there just waiting to be asked to help them out. Guess again! Fact is, if there wasn't some detrimental issue the entity that is likely to respond to this kind of request wouldn't be there. But respond they do! In droves. Possibly the second most common way to get attached.
So you may already in the mindset of being set up to receive attachments by your belief systems. And the spirit board may only compound this issue for you.
I hope my belief systems are not setting me up for attachments. But you have a great point, placing the emphasis on compounding the problem, specially if one mistakingly perceives guides as helpful when in fact they're malevolent.
Jasmine said:
Usually the entity is not concerned with your greater good. So things I'm interested in doing for my greater good, things like - diet, exercise, spiritual hygiene, education, etc... are paramount for me. But along the way, you'll feel a "nagging" or re-occurring pattern that is in opposition to your higher good and goals.
Okay, how do you know experimenting with a spirit board is for your greater good? When the idea cropped up how quickly did you jump on-board to want to do it and have you left yourself space to change your mind at some point?
I felt that the spirit board would be a natural extension to my current knowledge and awareness. Used properly it would extend my knowledge and awareness which is in alignment with my greater good. Like everything in life, we try something & hope it turns out well, but there's never a guarantee. The safety-net of this network, has proved to be extremely valuable and perhaps saved me from learning a nasty lesson the hard way. If the spirit board is a natural extension to my current knowledge & awareness, it's most definitely not in my immediate future.
For over a year that I've been studying Lauras work, the idea of using a spirit board myself never crossed my mind. When I saw the video, it occurred to me that perhaps using the spirit board would be a natural extension to my current knowledge and awareness. I would say I jumped-on-board rather quickly. And I hope I answered your final question with the above answer.
Jasmine said:
I'm careful about "the advice and words of others" everybody has their own issues. Nine times out of ten, other people really don't have your best interest at heart. That's kind of hard to find outside of close family ties. Or trustworthy support system. It can be had, this forum might be a good example of a good place to get healthy advice and support.
As well you should be! But this is an open network forum where lot's of people can see what's being written and can offer insights and feedback that normally wouldn't be available. For example, if what I'm writing is through a subjective lens of perception and detrimental than someone else will chime in and point it out or provide an alternative perspective that is more objective. It's part and parcel the beauty of being part of a network and the fact that a big area of focus here is on Self-Work, where we deal with our childhood and cultural programming, slowly rid ourselves of sacred-held beliefs and reduce emotional thinking.
Added: I don't mean to be harsh or anything, Jasmine. It's just that spirit board work is ripe with pitfalls, and if you aren't careful things can go downhill.
I didn't feel that you were harsh at all. Not at all. To the contrary, you had great questions and input, I always appreciate the feedback, thanks.