Fester
Jedi
Re: How to defend a lie.
hi
came to this thread to ask a question, and I think the above quote relates to it. Brief background to the question: I agree with Torpid's original commentary on liars, as I was such an accomplished liar by 15 or so that no-one believed me as a rule, 'cos everyone knew how good a liar I was! Hence, my first lesson in why not to lie. However, my honesty and sincerity cause problems at times, which I have tried to ignore assuming that one must ALWAYS speak truth if one is to ever find Truth. So I was a little startled to read the following in this essay: http://cassiopaea.org/2012/07/05/living-in-truth/ quoting Gurdjieff from "Life is Real Only Then, When ‘I Am’":
Of course, be sincere only here in this group, and in questions concerning the common aim.
Sincerity with everyone in general is weakness, slavery, and even a sign of hysteria.
Although the normal man must be able to be sincere, yet he must also know when, where, and for what purpose it is necessary to be sincere.
Is the suggestion that it is necessary to lie to STS oriented persons in order to not be controlled by them? Or more prosaic things, like job interviews? Or to a policy enforcer/police officer?
This statement has kinda thrown me... can someone please explain what this may mean? I'm drawing a blank... I wanna be a REAL boy!
shoulda finished the article first... Is the implication that we should just not discuss the work with those that don't get it?
"Many of our most profound lessons come through our experiences of learning to defend ourselves in ways that are creative, defending ourselves as a consequence of defending the truth. Because our concern is for the truth, not our own well-being, we are able to tap into a creative source that is unavailable to the psychopath. This, in turn, permits us to come up with ideas that leave the psychopath defenseless, and that, in turn, serve as an effective self-defense. But always as a consequence of working to defend the truth."
Or is this suggesting to be "creative" with the truth so as to lead the (potential) psychopath up the garden path, so to speak?
I think I may understand this viscerally, but not quite well enough to verbalise the idea :/
PepperFritz said:Very true. Also known as "strategic enclosure".piranah said:In learning to be honest with myself I realize too it is better not to lie but to know who you can tell truth to and who you can't....
hi
came to this thread to ask a question, and I think the above quote relates to it. Brief background to the question: I agree with Torpid's original commentary on liars, as I was such an accomplished liar by 15 or so that no-one believed me as a rule, 'cos everyone knew how good a liar I was! Hence, my first lesson in why not to lie. However, my honesty and sincerity cause problems at times, which I have tried to ignore assuming that one must ALWAYS speak truth if one is to ever find Truth. So I was a little startled to read the following in this essay: http://cassiopaea.org/2012/07/05/living-in-truth/ quoting Gurdjieff from "Life is Real Only Then, When ‘I Am’":
Of course, be sincere only here in this group, and in questions concerning the common aim.
Sincerity with everyone in general is weakness, slavery, and even a sign of hysteria.
Although the normal man must be able to be sincere, yet he must also know when, where, and for what purpose it is necessary to be sincere.
Is the suggestion that it is necessary to lie to STS oriented persons in order to not be controlled by them? Or more prosaic things, like job interviews? Or to a policy enforcer/police officer?
This statement has kinda thrown me... can someone please explain what this may mean? I'm drawing a blank... I wanna be a REAL boy!
shoulda finished the article first... Is the implication that we should just not discuss the work with those that don't get it?
"Many of our most profound lessons come through our experiences of learning to defend ourselves in ways that are creative, defending ourselves as a consequence of defending the truth. Because our concern is for the truth, not our own well-being, we are able to tap into a creative source that is unavailable to the psychopath. This, in turn, permits us to come up with ideas that leave the psychopath defenseless, and that, in turn, serve as an effective self-defense. But always as a consequence of working to defend the truth."
Or is this suggesting to be "creative" with the truth so as to lead the (potential) psychopath up the garden path, so to speak?
I think I may understand this viscerally, but not quite well enough to verbalise the idea :/