Obsession with beauty - Plastic surgeries - Trans (Katoi from Thailand)

@Natus Videre I guess the tattoos that might anchor attachments would be the ones that represent people, evil or horror things, that sort of tattoo? Are we safe if we only get something small and cute? 😅 I got the Elvish ivy leaf broach from The Lord of the Rings. If anything attach, I hope it's an elf or a hobbit 🤣
There are positive attachments too.
Q: (L) She wants to know how many attachments she has?

A: Three. Two positive. One negative.
But I am not convinced that seeking a positive attachment is necessarily desirable either.
 
I confess to getting a neck/chin lift at age 64 (2 years ago), maybe 12 years after a major (128lb) weight loss. I was really conflicted about doing this, but ultimately was glad I did so. They say it is best to do these things before age 65 if you're going to do do so. I chose an excellent, conservative surgeon.
I was critically Ill a few years ago (coinciding with the pandemic onset) with septic shock from a renal stone. After that ordeal, I must have lost so much muscle and bone that my face seemed to have suddenly collapsed. I got down to under 100lbs for a long time.
I've since regained some (good) weight, and now look like myself again.
Other than the obvious desire for cosmetic benefit, I was motivated by a sense of needing to "stay competitive", as I need to keep working for as long as possible.
In fact, I've lost an inch in height. In my mind, I'm walking taller.
 
I knew a woman who was in a lot of trouble psychologically when she was a very young mother. In a sort of desperation, she got breast implants, and it boosted her self-esteem enough to give her a sense of renewed self-confidence. She credits her fake boobs as giving her younger and more superficial self another chance at life. Now she's actually a little wary of speaking about them for fear of judgment. But she secretly loves them.

I think there is some beauty in this story.

I understand the general critique and definitely think the hyper-glamorous body modification industry is getting totally out of control. I also think treating the issue too judgmentally may miss another way of seeing - for some people, it saves lives.
 
As said this kind of trend was always here, probably from the time of fall biologically programmed in humans, bodycentriness and worship of the physical, but in this day and age it is very more prounanced and programmed thanks to negative use of technology and sedentary lives(that are the product of first) that weaken connection to soul, and when there is 20 percent of influencers that are not human and are probably advocating for it makes sense, to distract people to more superficial things from deeper things, strengthen concentration on those aspects to extreme and lower vibration and make stupid, limited, artificial populus full of misery and stupidity for easier control.

Those kind of people should probably better invest their money in therapy to work on their complexes and fears, and work on internal validation if not portals that only know to get energy through external validation(attention) and have only sense of their worth based on their place in social hierarchy and status, it is miserable existance to begin with for someone "normal", but that is up to debate because this trend is now becoming new normal. Funny thing with that surgeries is that it creates people that look almost the same, like robots, and probably think the same and have same values so it is like collective hive mind, but the positive thing about it is that you can now see on the outside what is in the inside.

Probably most of them on extreme end when nature takes it s course in older age experience some kind of meltdown like is the case with sucides when they can not meet the societies standards anymore, because all their lives and identity is based on those values, so yeah easily influenced and controled.
 
and many women by nature are built to seek avoiding responsibility.
Seriously? Where have you come up with this? How is having children and raising them avoiding responsibility? I mean, that's what nature has intended for women. How is running a household avoiding responsibility? How is having a job and still taking care of a family avoiding responsibility?

Every woman I know has been very responsible in many different ways.
 
Interesting topic altogether, It's many things in one, yet ego is obsessed with attaining a certain beauty standard. I feel one can consider beauty overlays as an implant or a filter blocking the heart for understanding what true beauty is in either another person or the self. It's actually a natural thing for us wanting to have "eternal youth" and the elixer of health, as aging is a disease, and the original human was not meant to life in such a short time span. But as many things completely twisted into unhealthy beauty standards and death dropping obsessions. And the archetypical influence of the "princess" in it's negative influence. In how she's narcissistic shallow and obsessed with beauty. It doesn't matter much what gender or body we are in. It's ok to take care of the body and to look well taken care of, these overlays/implant of the princess are both in man and woman, and can be removed
I find something disturbing about the arresting beauty seen in some male faces, like (younger) Rob Lowe and Timothee Chalamet.
 
Seriously? Where have you come up with this? How is having children and raising them avoiding responsibility? I mean, that's what nature has intended for women. How is running a household avoiding responsibility? How is having a job and still taking care of a family avoiding responsibility?

Every woman I know has been very responsible in many different ways.

You are correct. I think I meant accountability and its in general broadly speaking, and for sure doesn't apply to all women. And ofc it applies to many men too. Maybe it's just those libtard types or the ones that have been spoiled their whole life by an easy life in the west.
 
A lot of that can stem from the perception that women have it easier in life and that female gender is considered more valuable than male.....
.......avoiding responsibility (which men have to have if they are to be seen as men.....
....in many cases the desire to become a woman stems from lazyness and avoiding responsibility.

Oh dear, I just got my biggest laugh for the day! And I haven't even had my coffee yet! Makes me wonder which "generation" label harbors such views. I mean if one person has these "perceptions," then their whole generation must have them also. Right?

It does give me things to consider though. I mean when China had their "one baby" rule, parents allegedly killed off the girl babies until they finally had a boy baby. They must be masochistic to eliminate the population that is perceived as more valuable. I didn't know they were self-sabotaging like that. And there is the hypothesis that the male urge to "trans" involves some pathologically immature psycho-logical envy of the "opposite" sex. So, apparently, what they want is the ease, lack of struggle and irresponsibility that magically occurs by pretending to be female. And they go through extensive chemical and physical alterations to achieve that desirable state of irresponsibility. Seems like a like of work, but okay. Got it. And then there is homosexuality. So that's why women are lesbians! They don't want a strong, responsible, less valuable gender around. They want a partner that reflects them like a mirror -- lazy, averse to responsibility. Cool. Lots of questions answered now. No need to pursue these topics any more!
 
Maybe 25 years ago I got a Botox shot for a forehead crease between my eyes. It was incredibly effective to eliminate that skin fold, albeit pricey. But the real surprise was the other lifestyle benefits; daily tension headaches gone for about 6 months and I got on better with my children. When I think to answer a question, I frown, so they thought I was always mad at them. The Botox gave me a calm expression more consistent with my actual emotional state.
These days, I live alone, and Botox is Way over budget. Sometimes I think about wearing a little piece of tape on that frown place to remind me to relax.
 
Maybe 25 years ago I got a Botox shot for a forehead crease between my eyes. It was incredibly effective to eliminate that skin fold, albeit pricey. But the real surprise was the other lifestyle benefits; daily tension headaches gone for about 6 months and I got on better with my children. When I think to answer a question, I frown, so they thought I was always mad at them. The Botox gave me a calm expression more consistent with my actual emotional state.
These days, I live alone, and Botox is Way over budget. Sometimes I think about wearing a little piece of tape on that frown place to remind me to relax.
Well stress and sorrow really play its part in appearance. A lifetime of depression, worry and sadness leaves its mark on our features, especially on the forehead and brows. Then on the other hand there’s ‘laugh’ lines, wrinkles around the nose and eyes. For someone who is animated in their facial expressions their life is reflected back to them in the mirror.
Then there’s the natural hollowing of the face as we age.

For me, all of the above applies, no amount of Botox could fix my appearance. The deep lines and wrinkles are my witness of a tough life, even my dimples are just deep ravines these days. It’s not necessarily age that has ravaged my looks but a combination of genetics and a predisposition to depression which is a constant battle. Though he’s much older than I, Jordan Peterson is an example of what I’m talking about, his battles with depression have left their signature. I look like him.

So I see my appearance as ‘war wounds’ a testimony of the past struggles I’ve endured. I accept them as part of my story.
 
Wow, she doesn’t even seem to have any emotions about what she did to her children causing one of them to be cooked to death in a hot car.
In the most extreme of cases, people will risk the lives of their own children to get ‘that look’. This is sickening :barf:


Police say a young mother had her two children, ages 1 and 2, strapped in their car seats in a parking lot while she was getting a cosmetic procedure. Her youngest died from the heat. Maya Hernandez faces a judge inside a courtroom in Bakersfield, California. Police say the temperature inside the car had soared to 143 degrees. Little Amillio had no pulse and died at the hospital. His two-year-old brother survived. The mother's attorney spoke with Inside Edition.
 
Here are filmed examples of very old Chinese women who had to go through the worst torture for the small feet fashion.
It's a Facebook Short in French. Trigger warning: Beware the faint of heart

I always thought it was just about binding the feet from a very young age... Nope! It's WAY worse:
Parents would break the toes (as in breaking the bones!!) of their baby girls, then wrap them tightly. Those girls would endure the worst pain for weeks and years. This practice lasted for 7 centuries! :scared: In comparison, the Victorian corset only lasted for less than 100 years.
Those modern plastic surgeries look like cake compared to this.



Foot-binding in China
Time Period: Foot-binding began around the 10th century (late Tang Dynasty) and continued until the early 20th century. It became widespread during the Song Dynasty (960–1279) and persisted through the Yuan, Ming, and Qing Dynasties. The practice started declining in the late 19th century due to social reforms and was largely eradicated by the 1940s after being banned in 1912 following the fall of the Qing Dynasty.
Key Decades: Most prevalent from the 1200s to the 1890s, with a gradual decline until the 1940s.

Victorian Corset
Time Period: The corset was a prominent fashion item in Europe and North America during the Victorian era, roughly from the 1830s to the early 1900s. Its use peaked in the mid-to-late 19th century, particularly from the 1840s to the 1890s, when tight-lacing was most extreme to achieve the idealized hourglass figure.
Key Decades: 1830s–1900s, with the most intense use from the 1840s to the 1890s. Corsets began falling out of mainstream fashion by the early 20th century with the rise of more relaxed clothing styles.
 
During the past few years, I have noticed the proliferation of tattoo/piercing shops. When I walk outside, I often get the impression that everyone has a tattoo! Whenever I meet new people, I try to see if their personality matches with their tattoos. Sometimes, I am blown away by the dichotomy—I remember meeting a young, joyful, smart woman who had horrific serpentine tattoos.
If only people knew...
This is something that always grabs my attention. I can't stop looking at peoples' tattoos, especially in the summer, when they are in full display. I am always aware of the C's comments about attachments to tattoos. Quite a scary concept. All that cost and pain just to obtain your very own attachment. I was sitting chatting to some younger colleagues yesterday and one 40 year old showed me his tattooed arms and back. They were quite unpleasant looking but he was thrilled with them. Interestingly enough he was very critical of the vaccinations and is in agreement with me about who controls our world. Sadly not aware enough to be wise about the art of the tattooist.
 
This is something that always grabs my attention. I can't stop looking at peoples' tattoos, especially in the summer, when they are in full display. I am always aware of the C's comments about attachments to tattoos. Quite a scary concept. All that cost and pain just to obtain your very own attachment. I was sitting chatting to some younger colleagues yesterday and one 40 year old showed me his tattooed arms and back. They were quite unpleasant looking but he was thrilled with them. Interestingly enough he was very critical of the vaccinations and is in agreement with me about who controls our world. Sadly not aware enough to be wise about the art of the tattooist.
My soon 18 years old doughter loves piercings. One in brow and 8 on ears. I'm loosing my mind.
There is just no way at the moment I could bring her to reason. Praying for tattoos do not become 'the thing' also.
God, I'm so sick of this world
 
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