OK, STS don't ask, they manipulate, in order to obtain. STO oriented/candidate people (in 3 D) mustn't give spontaneously, but only if asked to.lux said:No. It's about something else. For the better understanding, I would recommend to read this article http://glossary.cassiopaea.com/glossary.php?id=883
This is where you can start of better understanding of what the STO and STS are.
It's not easy for me to not give spontaneously, it's as though I was born like this. But I'm trying to change because it leads to problems (when you fall on a psychopath) and life is lesson ;)
A good lesson for me: not giving if not asked, not giving before knowing the person. I'll be complicit (even if unvolontarily) if I nourish the bad wolf,
An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy.
“It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.”
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”
The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”