Sexual energy and relationships

Fluffy said:
Apart from the spiritual aspects of semen retention there are others benefits that are used by athletes, body builders, men trying to gain control of their mind and bodies etc
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yes, there's a whole movement online for no ejaculation enthusiasts, I think the biggest benefit from it, besides control, is self awareness to know yourself and to observe the motivations, energies and emotions behind the urgency.

There's all sorts of things that attach to that urgency as means of expression, so one of the things to do, as G would say, is to place every emotion in its right place, and express it in the right way so that sexuality can be about sexuality, and positive, creative emotions. In a perfect world that is.

But at the very least, recognizing what seeks to get expressed via that avenue, is a positive outcome to postponing ejaculation by default, like fasting.
 
jacygirl said:
Channeled Sting? Am I sensing tantric antics?
Ok, now I really want to start a thread to know more, for umm...scientific purposes...yeah...
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Not really. I was joking about that. Suffice it to say that there were some nights that turned into mornings where I/we experienced some sort of joint out of body traveling. There wasn’t any intention or practice involved, and I’m definitely no magic man by any stretch of the imagination. It was just a crazy chemistry thing. I’d probably die today.😂 But at the time (and more relevant to the topic), there was an unmistakable feeling of the life center being recharged to a degree that I quite literally felt like I was twenty years younger. I was 38 years old at the time, and the next week I was backpacking 20 miles like I did in my early 20s. What @Fluffy said above was true in my “findings”. But I’m 58 now, and like I said: I would very likely die trying. I’m certain of that!🤣
 
Balance can be an important thing.

If an energy center is too active it can cause problems in daily life.

Arousal in men causes a physiological reaction that is very obvious and difficult to conceal, as well as having sex on their mind all the time, especially in youth.

This is cancelled out by masturbation.

At least in men, the older you are, the less need there is to balance this accumulation of sexual energy.

As Forrest Gump said in the movie when he became a millionaire: "One less thing to worry about!" :-D
 
Wandering Star said:
Balance can be an important thing.

If an energy center is too active it can cause problems in daily life.

Arousal in men causes a physiological reaction that is very obvious and difficult to conceal, as well as having sex on their mind all the time, especially in youth.

This is cancelled out by masturbation.

At least in men, the older you are, the less need there is to balance this accumulation of sexual energy.

As Forrest Gump said in the movie when he became a millionaire: "One less thing to worry about!" :-D
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I think in youth it’s a biological function for a male so he will seek out a partner to fall in love and procreate with. In an ideal world this wouldn’t have been corrupted by pornography and slutty females.
 
Fluffy said:
I think in youth it’s a biological function for a male so he will seek out a partner to fall in love and procreate with. In an ideal world this wouldn’t have been corrupted by pornography and slutty females.
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True enough when faced with the nagging erections of adolescence, boys will play with their toys.😄 I for one always found the promiscuity of an ever-growing percentage of the girls my age, especially the ones a few years younger than I with the emergence of Madonna (15 year olds wearing bustiers to school for Chrissakes!) incredibly disappointing. I was always a fall-in-love, get married guy. Sure, we got sex ed in the 6th grade, but it wasn’t a rush to see who’d get there first. If anything our mothers were probably grateful we discovered hygiene!🤣
 
True enough @Don Cesar my friend. Another wise buddy of mine once argued, “Prostitution cannot be the world’s oldest profession. It must be the beggar, because someone had to ask.” In other words, the door was opened, and we walked through by choice. We wanted the experience, so we entered the room.

and we’ve been trying to get the hell out ever since!🤣
 
Amor said:
I wanted to ask some of you who are in a romantic relationship with women. I wondered how do you deal with sexual energy. My issue is that I have ended several relationships in my life just of the moment of darkness every time I have sex with a girlfriend. As if my lifeforce being sucked out on many levels. After an ejaculation comes an experience of "small death". I know by now the importance of nutrition and the sense of separation becomes strong to the point of apathy towards life it self and I always need a month or so to get together. I feel like that sex is pointless because of it. I have read some of the Mantak Chia material but didn't try the techniques and I am wondering if some of you have done them and if you could say they are effective. Maybe you know some other ways how to avoid that loss of energy? Maybe I am centering my relationships around such values unconsciously which leads me to such experiences? I will be very grateful for your insights
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IMHO When there was a "frequency mismatch" this type of thing will happen. I don't mean to say "Blame it on other" for every issue. Many times, "frequencies" of the partners in relationships changes, thus making people feel the difference in exchange.

The Romance Novels thread is of good help. This reminds me of 'Bringer of the dawn' (though it reads like little new agey).

If humans were the library cards, then some were better library cards than others. There was training that went into being the library card, and when beings came who wanted to find information on the planet, they would merge with the human occupant who was coded to respond to certain codes. If someone had a low code, they might only see a certain amount of something; each one came with the purpose of accessing specific information. Information was not withheld from someone because it was secretive, but because the information was not electromagnetically suited to their biological structure.

Data must be able to penetrate the belief system of an individual; otherwise, the individual could blow up if they are overwhelmed with energy that is not strongly tempered with love. When something is strongly tempered with love, it prevents the individual from blowing apart and keeps them focused on receiving a very enlarged concept. This is how large concepts are transduced onto this planet: they ride the love frequency.

Light frequency cannot carry large concepts because it is not connected with emotion. Love frequency is connected with emotion. When an individual is creating an expanded concept of themselves, there must be a love that gives the individual purpose. Without love, the individual does not feel there is purpose, and the individual must always feel connected with purpose to understand how vast things are.

You are going to discover someday that sex is part of the process. When you own your own sexuality, you will see the opportunities you have to express it, and you will decide whether you want to express it in those ways or not. As you become accessible, and as others utilize you to discover. the library, you may have very interesting encounters as the years evolve. If you go back and study the scriptures and ancient manuscripts, you will understand that the gods came down and intermingled with the daughters of human beings.

Sexuality has been used to spark the library card. There is something very dangerous in this, however, because it has been misused. That is why it is very important to own your sexuality and be very certain whom you share it with. We don't want any of you to be in a position to be bought or enticed. You are advised to look and see if you experience others as being honest and having integrity or whether they are flattering you. You are becoming stewards for power.

There are traditionalists who feel we are making entirely too much information available without supervision. We say that Earth is headed for a major collision, so no holds barred. We are flooding the planet, as are many others, with opportunities to remember. So, as you begin to amass this knowledge and these abilities, there will be others attracted to you for their own reasons because of what they can access through you.

When you are sexual with someone, it is like opening an avenue to the other libraries. It has to do with many, many things. Part of what we want all of you to do is love and honor your bodies, love yourself, and make certain that if you are going to be sexual with someone that the person really love you. It doesn't mean you are going to marry them. But there has to be love so that you know who you are bonding with; in this way, the discoveries that you make move between the two of you. We are not so much warning you as we are informing you, because you will see things happen to others who are not careful of their power.

In other words, sexuality is not something to fool around with. It is a way to open many avenues. If one does not approach it carefully, one can attract energies even without having a partner. If one is using sexuality to activate information, one could invite the wrong energies in. So be aware of the frequency of sexuality, because it brings up the emotions, and the emotions are the key to accessing the data that is stored in the Living Library.

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Sexuality can be very confusing at this time because you are raising and studying your frequencies. When you join bodies, even when you hug one another, you exchange frequency. When you have a sexual experience, there is a hormonal release inside the body. The hormones awaken certain energies inside the cells, and there is a transference of one person's essence onto the other person. That is why when vote have had sexual experiences with someone volt sometimes cannot get their energy off vote. Even though you don't want to be with the person, the sexual experience stays with you because you have had an electromagnetic exchange.

You are going through this frequency modulation and learning how to raise your frequency to a place of consistent information, self-love, and self-intimacy. Therefore, it can seem very confusing and sometimes frightening to take this vulnerable thing you are learning about yourself and layer up and merge with another. The more you become aware, the more you take charge of how you use your body, where you plug it in, where you sit it down, and certainly who you mix it with sexually.

If expressing yourself sexually now encouraged your greatest growth, you would automatically create that experience for yourself because you would be ready for it. Understand that, during the process of evolving the self, very often a period of dormancy in sexual activity occurs. Within the sexual frequency, you exchange with one another. So if you are bonding yourself and chemically exchanging with a person who is not of your likeness, you are taking on their garbage because you are exchanging energy quite intimately.

Sometimes you will be led away from that kind of exchange. You may think, "Oh, my goodness, what is happening? Am I turning old? Am I drying up? What is going on?" That is not the case. You can learn to use the energy that would stimulate you sexually without giving it over to another person. Instead of getting chaotic and crazy, you may explore that energy by practicing the art of masturbation, knowing that it is perfectly legitimate and fine to do it. Or, you may want to simply observe that you feel a sexual arousal and decide what you are going to do with it. You may say, "Well, I'm not going to act on this now. Let's see where this energy goes." Take the energy, let it rise through your body, and use it in other areas.
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C's already said that 4D STS collects the sexual energy.

Q: (L) I guess that means that the life force energy that is embodied in Organic Portals is something like the soul pool that is theorized to exist for flora and fauna. This would, of course, explain the striking and inexplicable similarity of psychopaths, that is so well defined that they only differ from one another in the way that different species of trees are different in the overall class of Tree-ness. So, if they don't have souls, where does the energy come from that recharges Organic Portals?

A: The pool you have described.

Q: Does the recharging of the souled being come from a similar pool, only maybe the "human" pool?

A: No - it recharges from the so-called sexual center which is a higher center of creative energy. During sleep, the emotional center, not being blocked by the lower intellectual center and the moving center, transduces the energy from the sexual center. It is also the time during which the higher emotional and intellectual centers can rest from the "drain" of the lower centers' interaction with those pesky organic portals so much loved by the lower centers. This respite alone is sufficient to make a difference. But, more than that, the energy of the sexual center is also more available to the other higher centers.

Q: (L) Well, the next logical question was: where does the so-called "sexual center" get ITS energy?

A: The sexual center is in direct contact with 7th density in its "feminine" creative thought of "Thou, I Love." The "outbreath" of "God" in the relief of constriction. Pulsation. Unstable Gravity Waves.
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It looks OP's don't have connection to "7D" during sleep? In any case, it is VERY HARD to know who is who. Atleast it helps to narrow down some variables.
 
I would like to post a serious reply to this topic (and yes, I can be serious!).
My first thought was Lenny Kravitz, famous American musician who is known for his music, marriage to Lisa Bonet, daughter Zoe Kravitz, his age...being 60 and looking 30 (with the body of a Greek god). Also known for his celibacy by choice.

I will add the link to this particular quick story about him, but here are a couple of quotes:
"It’s a spiritual thing," he said.

It has been nine years since he has been in a relationship, and Kravitz credits discipline for his years long celibacy.

"I didn’t like it. I didn’t want to be that guy. So I had to tackle that and it took years," Kravitz said, adding that he took responsibility and didn't let "my own desires take over.”

www.nbcnews.com

Lenny Kravitz may bare all in his music video, but he's been celibate for 9 years

The “Fly Away” singer opened up about his personal life in an interview with The Guardian, saying he's waiting to find the right person.
www.nbcnews.com www.nbcnews.com

So basically it takes dedication, time, a mindset that is intent on changing and personal responsibility. Apparently it is do-able, but it's hard. :whistle:
 
Jim Daniels said:
I'm new to this Experiment and still learning the nomenclature and acronyms.

What is " ITS Energy " ?
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I could be wrong but I think it is meant to be, where does it get IT'S energy. As in, where does the 'sexual center' receive the energy.

If you consider that 'The Fall' is about us/them/whoever wanting to experience sex in the physical...don't you wonder if some of the 'messing with our physical bodies' by who/whatever might have amped up the testosterone so us dumbass humans would keep having sex and making more babies?

That thought alone could make me choose celibacy just to be defiant, lol.
 
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