Sexual energy and relationships

[Wandering Star]

And another issue related to male masturbation.

In youth it also has the function of "training" with the aim of delaying orgasm, so that in future relationships the partner can also reach orgasm.

If the man reaches orgasm in thirty seconds and it's over, most women will not be able to reach it.

In my adolescence I had a friend who had very rigid and conservative parents regarding the subject of sex. It was only to be in marriage and masturbation was a sin against God.

So when any woman touched him on the arm the boy got an erection. So if we were in a cafe, he had to remain seated sometimes for more than half an hour until his erection went down.

The first time a woman put her hand over his jeans on his penis, he instantly had an orgasm.

His future partners had to deal with all that.

 

[seek10]

I'm new to this Experiment and still learning the nomenclature and acronyms.

What is " ITS Energy " ?

I think 'ITS' in the sentence is "sexual center".

 

[jacygirl]

And another issue related to male masturbation.

In youth it also has the function of "training" with the aim of delaying orgasm, so that in future relationships the partner can also reach orgasm.

If the man reaches orgasm in thirty seconds and it's over, most women will not be able to reach it.

In my adolescence I had a friend who had very rigid and conservative parents regarding the subject of sex. It was only to be in marriage and masturbation was a sin against God.

So when any woman touched him on the arm the boy got an erection. So if we were in a cafe, he had to remain seated sometimes for more than half an hour until his erection went down.

The first time a woman put her hand over his jeans on his penis, he instantly had an orgasm.

His future partners had to deal with all that.

I have a son-in-law who, when he got an erection as a child, was punished by being put into an ice cold bathtub.

So much in our world screams "have sex!!!" but the shame, guilt, trauma and abuse to children (and adults) in regards to this 'natural function of humans'...well, it's criminal. The repercussions (future relationships) are usually not healthy. Yeah, it's criminal.

 

[iamthatis]

I could be wrong but I think it is meant to be, where does it get IT'S energy. As in, where does the 'sexual center' receive the energy.

If you consider that 'The Fall' is about us/them/whoever wanting to experience sex in the physical...don't you wonder if some of the 'messing with our physical bodies' by who/whatever might have amped up the testosterone so us dumbass humans would keep having sex and making more babies?

That thought alone could make me choose celibacy just to be defiant, lol.

I think The Fall wasn't necessarily about sex, but the temptation towards physicality in general - a choice towards the short wave learning cycle. Sex is part of that, but not all of it.

Sex as the main culprit and cause of our great sin is likely a result of Frank's distortion - he was apparently repulsed by sex.

We have plenty of great examples of healthy sex in the romance novels. The author Mary Balogh is very talented in depicting sex as a means of experiencing mutual giving and receiving. Orgasm is not avoided.

About testosterone - I think the trend is the opposite to what you've said. It's being amped down in men in the West. Low-T males can be more histrionic, weaker, reactionary, and prone to obedience to the narrative - think soyboys. Higher-T males are more normal - protective, assertive, able to think for themselves, and stronger. There's a lot of nuance to testosterone levels, but that's the general gist I think.

 

[Evan]

I think 'ITS' in the sentence is "sexual center".

I read that as being possessive pronoun “its” in all caps for emphasis e.g. “Where do you get YOURS?” But I could be entirely wrong.

 

[seek10]

I would like to post a serious reply to this topic (and yes, I can be serious!).
My first thought was Lenny Kravitz, famous American musician who is known for his music, marriage to Lisa Bonet, daughter Zoe Kravitz, his age...being 60 and looking 30 (with the body of a Greek god). Also known for his celibacy by choice.

I will add the link to this particular quick story about him, but here are a couple of quotes:
"It’s a spiritual thing," he said.

It has been nine years since he has been in a relationship, and Kravitz credits discipline for his years long celibacy.

"I didn’t like it. I didn’t want to be that guy. So I had to tackle that and it took years," Kravitz said, adding that he took responsibility and didn't let "my own desires take over.”

Lenny Kravitz may bare all in his music video, but he's been celibate for 9 years

The “Fly Away” singer opened up about his personal life in an interview with The Guardian, saying he's waiting to find the right person.

www.nbcnews.com

So basically it takes dedication, time, a mindset that is intent on changing and personal responsibility. Apparently it is do-able, but it's hard.

I think we have to remember different centers ( mechanical, intellectual and emotional centers) has their own functions. If these centers doesn't do their proper function, they rob sexual center energy and hell ( wars etc. in the name of god etc.) can break loose. Our centers rarely work properly in this world.

That is reason for religious figures who abstain from Sex created hell on this planet. Laura extensively wrote about these in the forum. search the forum- wrong functioning of the center. robbing of sexual energy etc. That's why knowing one's own machine is extremely important.

few example: If
- Intellectual center uses emotional center energy - one can become nuerotic and make "elephant out of fly"
- Emotional center uses Intellectual center energy - One can fail to see the nuances of the situation.

Study and Discussion of the Moving Center

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The Usefulness of the Negative Half of the Emotional Center

A couple of posts have prompted me to share this exchange from QFS today. In this thread: http://www.cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php?topic=7180.msg50810#msg50810 Well it's not Peru, but I think it is definitively related. Though I'm not so thrilled like guys in studio! I've even got this knot...

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All these centers can rob or misuse high potency, Sexual energy and can grand "theories" for wrong ends.

 

[seek10]

I read that as being possessive pronoun “its” in all caps for emphasis e.g. “Where do you get YOURS?” But I could be entirely wrong.

Probably, you are right. English grammar is not "my thing".

 

[jacygirl]

I think we have to remember different centers ( mechanical, intellectual and emotional centers) has their own functions. If these centers doesn't do their proper function, they rob sexual center energy and hell ( wars etc. in the name of god etc.) can break loose. Our centers rarely work properly in this world.

That is reason for religious figures who abstain from Sex created hell on this planet. Laura extensively wrote about these in the forum. search the forum- wrong functioning of the center. robbing of sexual energy etc. That's why knowing one's own machine is extremely important.

few example: If
- Intellectual center uses emotional center energy - one can become nuerotic and make "elephant out of fly"
- Emotional center uses Intellectual center energy - One can fail to see the nuances of the situation.

Study and Discussion of the Moving Center

Because there have been several cases of forum members who are strongly moving center oriented and I am trying to figure out how to help the work on themselves, I collected today, a selection of excerpts from ISOTM using the search term: moving center. I pasted all the excerpts together in a...

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The Usefulness of the Negative Half of the Emotional Center

A couple of posts have prompted me to share this exchange from QFS today. In this thread: http://www.cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php?topic=7180.msg50810#msg50810 Well it's not Peru, but I think it is definitively related. Though I'm not so thrilled like guys in studio! I've even got this knot...

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All these centers can rob or misuse high potency, Sexual energy and can grand "theories" for wrong ends.

I agree with what you're saying. I do know that it is possible to experience emotions without reacting to them. Most people I've known are driven by their emotions and don't even realize it.
People also trade one 'addiction' for another, thinking it's healthier (like exercising excessively). I consider addictions to be coping mechanisms, so some individuals can eventually realize their current mechanism isn't working anymore (or might kill them). They choose to replace one 'habit' for another, but do so with the same gusto that they used previously with sex, drugs, work, etc.
Balance/moderation must be achieved but that takes a very strong will (that sadly many people seem to lack).

 

[Ricardo]

I'm new to this Experiment and still learning the nomenclature and acronyms.

What is " ITS Energy " ?

Session 24 September 2001 :

Q: (L) Do orgone accumulators accumulate orgone? {giggling}

A: Yes.

Q: (L) What is orgone?

A: Life-force.

Q: (L) What is life-force? (A) What is the closest expression in physical terms?

A: EM substrate.

Q: (A) What is substrate?

A: Base.

Q: (L) How does EM substrate or base... (A) Vacuum point? Vacuum.

A: Close.

 

[Ricardo]

There is also the work of People like Charles Webster Leadbeater that further confirms mechanical workings of such. ( among others ofc)

 

[jacygirl]

Session 24 September 2001 :

Q: (L) Do orgone accumulators accumulate orgone? {giggling}

A: Yes.

Q: (L) What is orgone?

A: Life-force.

Q: (L) What is life-force? (A) What is the closest expression in physical terms?

A: EM substrate.

Q: (A) What is substrate?

A: Base.

Q: (L) How does EM substrate or base... (A) Vacuum point? Vacuum.

A: Close.

Obrigada, that's clear as mud lol. I have an orgone pyramid, now I'm wondering if I should move it closer to me or further away? (I tend to avoid vacuuming...I mean vacuums!!)

 

[Don Cesar]

True enough @Don Cesar my friend. Another wise buddy of mine once argued, “Prostitution cannot be the world’s oldest profession. It must be the beggar, because someone had to ask.” In other words, the door was opened, and we walked through by choice. We wanted the experience, so we entered the room.

and we’ve been trying to get the hell out ever since!

Yes, we know this song my friend... "You can check out anytime you like, but you can never leave !"

 

[Ricardo]

eh "up to you " ? , I'll leave better informed to answer such , energy imbalance is a very serious issue , as always knowledge protects , contemplative exercises and some more physical work , helps , balance growth ( like qi gong and similar ).

 

[Jim Daniels]

Q: (L) What is life-force? (A) What is the closest expression in physical terms?

A: EM substrate.

What does that acronym "EM" stand for ?

 

[Mike]

What does that acronym "EM" stand for ?

I do believe it is Electromagnetic or Electromagnetism.