Sexual energy and relationships

[Ricardo]

eh "up to you " ? , I'll leave better informed to answer such , energy imbalance is a very serious issue , as always knowledge protects , contemplative exercises and some more physical work , helps , balance growth ( like qi gong and similar ).

There's passive changes that can be of benefit to most ( like mentioned in Seth Speaks by Jane Roberts ) , as aligning the bed to a more appropriate direction. ( even so ymmv and results may not be immediately apparent )

 

[Evan]

Yes, we know this song my friend... "You can check out anytime you like, but you can never leave !"

That song was a staple in my band’s 40-song cover set list for almost 30 years. Sat right in between Tom Sawyer and Comfortably Numb (which conveniently is, like Hotel California, also in B minor and made for a nice segue).

 

[jacygirl]

That song was a staple in my band’s 40-song cover set list for almost 30 years. Sat right in between Tom Sawyer and Comfortably Numb (which conveniently is, like Hotel California, also in B minor and made for a nice segue).

You have just named 3 songs from the soundtrack of my life. Also I was once married to a drummer, so 'respect' to all musicians. I almost used 'Comfortably Numb' for my user name here, lol (but I thought that might not translate well and everyone would think I was a stoner!)

 

[Don Cesar]

That song was a staple in my band’s 40-song cover set list for almost 30 years. Sat right in between Tom Sawyer and Comfortably Numb (which conveniently is, like Hotel California, also in B minor and made for a nice segue).

Hôtel California and Comfortably numb are part of my heritage as well I'm a bit like a juke box, I remained a strummer singer, but I got into the blues a little (which I love) since the covid confinement.
A few guitar lessons from you would do me good Probably one day... Sincerely

 

[jacygirl]

Not really. I was joking about that. Suffice it to say that there were some nights that turned into mornings where I/we experienced some sort of joint out of body traveling. There wasn’t any intention or practice involved, and I’m definitely no magic man by any stretch of the imagination. It was just a crazy chemistry thing. I’d probably die today. But at the time (and more relevant to the topic), there was an unmistakable feeling of the life center being recharged to a degree that I quite literally felt like I was twenty years younger. I was 38 years old at the time, and the next week I was backpacking 20 miles like I did in my early 20s. What @Fluffy said above was true in my “findings”. But I’m 58 now, and like I said: I would very likely die trying. I’m certain of that!

I appreciate you describing the situation. I have never had an experience like that, and am feeling a little ripped off right now (lol).
You wrote, "But I’m 58 now, and like I said: I would very likely die trying."
Yeah, same...but what a way to go!!

 

[jacygirl]

Do it, please…. I can’t stop laughing about the potential of that thread to cure the vagus nerve…. And I want to know how to channel Sting too

I had to come back to this comment again, lol. You had me at 'vagus nerve'. That gives "Confessions" a new twist that I must ponder. Now we're talking about curing stuff so it has value. I suppose I would have to confess first, and of course now I would expect one from you too . I'm also considering a "Pick your desired apocalyptic ending" (also inspired by members in this thread).
Gotta love the occasional shenanigans, eh?

 

[Fluffy]

And another issue related to male masturbation.

In youth it also has the function of "training" with the aim of delaying orgasm, so that in future relationships the partner can also reach orgasm.

If the man reaches orgasm in thirty seconds and it's over, most women will not be able to reach it.

In my adolescence I had a friend who had very rigid and conservative parents regarding the subject of sex. It was only to be in marriage and masturbation was a sin against God.

So when any woman touched him on the arm the boy got an erection. So if we were in a cafe, he had to remain seated sometimes for more than half an hour until his erection went down.

The first time a woman put her hand over his jeans on his penis, he instantly had an orgasm.

His future partners had to deal with all that.

Well there’s that aspect. I’ve had first hand (not mine though I did eventually help out, and we are still together, 4 kids and 27 years later) experience with that exact scenario but it’s not just about masturbation, it’s more about total disconnection from the mind and body and living in a lala land of external distraction, sacred cows, disillusionment and general head in the sand about reality except from the tiny little world of self serving perception.
A woman also has no idea how to have intimate sexual relationship until she learns.
Again the problem is that the two should be learning together in a way that serves them both for the purpose of a loving union with the act of sex being deemed as a sacred embodiment of universal energy.

 

[jacygirl]

Well there’s that aspect. I’ve had first hand (not mine though I did eventually help out, and we are still together, 4 kids and 27 years later) experience with that exact scenario but it’s not just about masturbation, it’s more about total disconnection from the mind and body and living in a lala land of external distraction, sacred cows, disillusionment and general head in the sand about reality except from the tiny little world of self serving perception.
A woman also has no idea how to have intimate sexual relationship until she learns.
Again the problem is that the two should be learning together in a way that serves them both for the purpose of a loving union with the act of sex being deemed as a sacred embodiment of universal energy.

From the moment my son's diaper came off permanently he had his hand down his pants. Not doing anything, just holding it.
I, a female, only child so no siblings to witness boy behavior, I assumed he was just training for later when he would be holding the TV remote control.
But your explanation makes more sense.
(Also, both can be true, hehe...)

 

[Fluffy]

I had to come back to this comment again, lol. You had me at 'vagus nerve'. That gives "Confessions" a new twist that I must ponder. Now we're talking about curing stuff so it has value. I suppose I would have to confess first, and of course now I would expect one from you too . I'm also considering a "Pick your desired apocalyptic ending" (also inspired by members in this thread).
Gotta love the occasional shenanigans, eh?

Well I’ve got heaps, but most of them not very appropriate for this forum.
Giving joy to each other in the most simple of was such as sharing stories about being a knob is perfect in my opinion. I have been thinking about ‘write your own humorous epitaph’ thread.
I have very little time to be too serious, I’ve wasted it all up in the past, I think you only get a certain amount of serious minutes and once they’re gone they’re gone. It doesn’t mean that you can’t still do what needs to be done, just with a child like spin on it.

 

[jacygirl]

Well I’ve got heaps, but most of them not very appropriate for this forum.
Giving joy to each other in the most simple of was such as sharing stories about being a knob is perfect in my opinion. I have been thinking about ‘write your own humorous epitaph’ thread.
I have very little time to be too serious, I’ve wasted it all up in the past, I think you only get a certain amount of serious minutes and once they’re gone they’re gone. It doesn’t mean that you can’t still do what needs to be done, just with a child like spin on it.

Yes! Yes! Yes!
I can find the humor in anything now. (Ok, not torture, abuse, horrific stuff...but life in general)
I will now start thinking that my amount of serious minutes are gone (loooong gone) and continue to laugh at the world.
I want to face the apocalypse like Charlie Frost (Woody Harrelson) in the movie 2012. Standing on a mountain (or chair in backyard), laughing as the shitstorm approaches.

 

[Fluffy]

From the moment my son's diaper came off permanently he had his hand down his pants. Not doing anything, just holding it.
I, a female, only child so no siblings to witness boy behavior, I assumed he was just training for later when he would be holding the TV remote control.
But your explanation makes more sense.
(Also, both can be true, hehe...)

Well I’ve had dreams about being male and a memory of past life where I loved the ladies and they loved me.. I have to admit it’s quite a thing to behold- hahaha literally… and I can see how resisting ejaculation would be very difficult. It would take some real discipline to learn to orgasm without it.

 

[jacygirl]

Well I’ve had dreams about being male and a memory of past life where I loved the ladies and they loved me.. I have to admit it’s quite a thing to behold- hahaha literally… and I can see how resisting ejaculation would be very difficult. It would take some real discipline to learn to orgasm without it.

I haven't had the dreams but I'm well aware of what I call "my inner dude". In fact right now he is shaking his head at this line:
"It would take some real discipline to learn to orgasm without it." and thinking, "Then what's the point?"
Lol, he's a slow learner. Maybe I'll let him hold the remote.

 

[Wandering Star]

Again the problem is that the two should be learning together in a way that serves them both for the purpose of a loving union with the act of sex being deemed as a sacred embodiment of universal energy.

It's a very nice phrase.

You already have the answers and the solution.

 

[Wandering Star]

It would take some real discipline to learn to orgasm without it.

The next need some real discipline too.

Breatharianism, inedia or respiracionismo is a way of living that feeds only on the energy contained in the air and the sun. This source of energy is called prana and, according to its followers, its nutrients are equivalent to those of water and any solid food.

 

[Fluffy]

It's a very nice phrase.

You already have the answers and the solution.

Lofty goal of mine. Sounds good but I probably couldn’t be bothered trying!