djewlew said:
Yes, I think so, too, thanks.
Otherwise I’ll leave with a negative impression that this forum is
but a discouraging clique of “truth discoverers” who want to force
their truth findings on the prospect members.
I sense a negative, but I could be wrong. Your use of 'clique'
before "truth discoverers" to me, implies a negative? What
we are seeking is: "What is the truth (or lie)" and where
is the data that might lead us to discern the difference?
Why do you believe anyone is trying to "force their truth findings
on the prospect members"? There are different people here with
different ideas/agendas and different levels of knowledge and yet,
everyone who posts here could be "right", "wrong", or "unknown"?
Moderators are here to follow the policy as posted and the policy
is a guideline to control "noise"? They have done a good job
in responding to the violators, and anyone, including the moderators
can be admonished? This is fair. Every family has a "problem child"
and must be dealt with when the need arises, or so I think.
The choice of what you believe or what you do not believe
is totally up to you. Do you believe yourself to be perfect
in every way and is not in need of any "adjustments"?
Sometimes, forums are the starting point of a wonderful
relationship with strangers, but not always.
It depends on who the "stranger" is... and it depends on which
forum you are joining. Some forums will block or lock you out
completely, without warning, if you violate the "rules"?
So far, here, perhaps due to too much zeal, I’ve received
a slap and a half of negative feedback from it.
And does a negative feedback give you an opportunity to
examine why you received such a response?
Or negative feedback, because you had the expectation
that by violating the "rules", you would receive no
admonishment?
I did not even inferred insults to anyone,
From your own point of view? Perhaps one need to dig
a little deeper as to why one got such a response.
Maybe it is really nothing more than what one perceives
insults to be, or perhaps an insult that is not there,
or perhaps it IS an insult, so what to do about it? You
can choose to examine the "insult" for what it is, why you
got such an "insult", and to either accept it or to reject it
based on your subjective and/or objective reasoning?
but I got on the other hand some from some here.
Please, check your approach to visitors, will you, kindly?
It depends on the "visitor", what they say or don't say?
"Give each thing it's due and nothing more". Watch
your emotions more closely, and think it through, before
reacting/responding?
Not all visitors need to be immediately labelled "ogres"!...
Some are and some are not? What would you do if an
"ogres" enters into your home? Especially if this "ogres"
is a psychopath? How will you respond?
It is the typical approach, I understand, to ward off “trolls”
and other “viruses”; I understand.
I was going to post a topic like “Did 9/11 affect me?”, but now I hold
it off with apprehension and dread; not knowing if it would aggravate
you, that is, provoking some ugly epithets from the junior moderators.
Perhaps the 'apprehension' and 'dread' forces one to re-examime
the self more closely, to think more clearly on how one ought to
approach members here, and what one says? Hmm... sure seems
like a lot of hard work, no?
You have been shown the way: Study the materials posted here,
books to read as advised, topics discussed by others, and ground
yourself with objective knowledge removing the subjective knowledge
before proceeding to open your thoughts to others?
Have a great day in the Light that lets you see no Darkness.
I have no idea what is in your mind when you say: "Light"
or "Darkness", because your perception could be different
from that of my own?
With careful observation on this forum, each and every
member who posts here (me included), might discover
our own mirrors and perhaps the mirrors of our other
members?
FWIW,
Dan