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Gertrudes
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Menrva said:I am sorry that happened to you Gertrudes. She sounds pretty ignorant.
Thanks Menrva, but don't be sorry. I should have known better and simply got what I asked for. In 5 words, I was a willing idiot ;)
Menrva said:Your expediency to get it done seems stands out to me. Were you in such a hurry because of your coming move?
Yep. That was the problem.
Nancy2feathers said:I`m wondering if having someone that`s trusted (other than the therapist), be with the person that`s undergoing hypnosis during the session. Maybe needed for protection.
Actually I had thought of bringing my husband with me since going through such a sensitive experience with someone you've never seen in your life is, well, sensitive. He must have somehow sensed what was coming because he kept warning me about the possibility of doing more harm than good. In any case, our schedules are hard to match and I ended up not pursuing the possibility.
Endymion said:Having one's trust in the therapist betrayed in that way is really painful.
That's what gets me. On the one hand you have to trust the therapist for it to work but, on the other hand and at the same time, you have to be very alert to any mistakes from her part, particularly when you don't know the person. I have been tracking back where things began to go wrong and I'm starting to see more of it, the fact that I went along when I felt rushed simply closed the door for me to really connect to myself, instead I gave her more power than I should have. From that point on you could say that mind was at someone else's mercy, and that's very dangerous.
Endymion said:She (the therapist) probably thought she was doing good, but it seems she saw what she expected to see, and 'encouraged' you to see the same things to validate her own preconceptions.
Yes, I don't think that she consciously had bad intentions but rather that she didn't know better.
There was one other thing that also bugged me. Right at the beginning of our session she mentioned some sort of inner cleaning she had undergone (I don't remember the reasons behind it although she did say it at the time) which had opened up the floodgates to getting more clients. She felt she would never have to worry again about getting more clients in her life.
That bugged me because it sounded too much "Law of Attraction" style to me. When you work on something in your life that might have been hindering your real growth, the results are often surprising and new, unexpected doors tend to open. We have seen plenty of examples of that on the forum. However, you don't get a whole million dollar ticket, things tend to progress more organically. When I see people suddenly and very rapidly making fortunes or taking huge leaps business wise, they often seem to be aligned with the wrong sort.