Are you an introvert or just a covert narcissist? Test!

38/50
I think I have this score because of health issues. When I'm happy and healthy I find it way easier to focus on other people. Right now I just don't have the energy. :(
 
28/50
You’re kind of a covert narcissist.
You can be pretty self-centered, in other words, but the behavior isn’t out of control.

Eboard10 said:
Sometimes I get lost in my own thoughts about my problems and my relationships - something I used to do very ofter when I was younger and, while I have become more down to earth, I am still prone to dissociating on occasions.

I’m guilty on this, I’m generally dissociating in the subject about the people is talking me about. Sometimes on issues that have nothing to do. Lately I’m more aware of this and try to resume the conversation and accept my fault :D
 
33/50
You’re kind of a covert narcissist.
You can be pretty self-centered, in other words, but the behavior isn’t out of control.

The test is quite limited but interesting.

I agree in general with the result. I'm self-centered since child, searching the attention and approbation of others in order to satisfy the emotionnal lack programs that i maintain. Even if i feel that i fixed some issues about that, I'm still mostly a energetic vampire...

Well, i will continue to do my best !!!
 
I think I’m not shy, but other people have labeled me in that way before. After reading the explanation of Laura’s answering and other members I have a better understanding how to do it correctly. And I got 22/50

Beau said:
3. I feel emotionally or temperamentally different from most people.
If we're talking about most Western people, I don't see why this should be such a bad thing.
10. I try not to show it, but I’m often annoyed when people ask me to take my time and energy to sympathize over their problems.
Laura said:
I DO get a bit annoyed when you spend a lot of time helping someone and they take no action on their own and just keep whining and complaining.
I think the question 3 and 10 are tricky, like Beau said, It isn’t the same to be encircle of narcissistic people than people like there are here who really want to learn.
I answer question 3 with neutral because is ambiguous, and in the past I use to be proud because I think I was a coherent person without programs :D but I never think that I’m more especial o that I deserve more that anyone. I think that more people scored high in trying to be fair.

I was always locked in my own world, but I think it mainly was to protect myself, I would like to see more things I'm probably not watching, I did the other test that Laura shared and I got 3/20.
http://psychcentral.com/quizzes/narcissistic.htm
2 point self-sufficiency
1 point entitlement

I think the gravity to leave out any world is strong anyway
 
Christine said:
14/50

You’re probably not a covert narcissist.


I redid the test and I have a score of 4/50.
I think the score change because I finally understood that I should not expect others nothing. I expected too much of others, which made me suffer. It's work, but I succeed. :)

Self-Sufficiency: 2.00
Superiority: 1.00
Entitlement: 1.00
 
34/50

Is it possible to become a narcissist ?
Because I really didn't feel like I was one when thinking about a special point in my life, where I was in a nourishing environment for me, with nourishing acquaintances. And since a major shift happened in my situation about 2.5 years ago, I feel like I fell into the trap of becoming a covert narcissist up to this day - my few (for now) recent readings lighting this point up...

A possibility I'm also thinking about is that I was already a covert narcissist before that, and that the environment in which I was was lifting me up, burying this trait down :huh:

Edit: After thinking a bit about this question before posting, reflecting on myself, I now think that I have well been one without knowing it. I was living it as to be 'normal', regarding the environment in which I grew up and then, later, put myself in.
I recently entered the topic, thanks for the possible eye opening (yet to be explored) about my family, original surroundings and what's been currently blocking myself.
 
34/50

Is it possible to become a narcissist ?
Because I really didn't feel like I was one when thinking about a special point in my life, where I was in a nourishing environment for me, with nourishing acquaintances. And since a major shift happened in my situation about 2.5 years ago, I feel like I fell into the trap of becoming a covert narcissist up to this day - my few (for now) recent readings lighting this point up...

A possibility I'm also thinking about is that I was already a covert narcissist before that, and that the environment in which I was was lifting me up, burying this trait down :huh:

Edit: After thinking a bit about this question before posting, reflecting on myself, I now think that I have well been one without knowing it. I was living it as to be 'normal', regarding the environment in which I grew up and then, later, put myself in.
I recently entered the topic, thanks for the possible eye opening (yet to be explored) about my family, original surroundings and what's been currently blocking myself.

It's important to distinguish between narcissistic traits and what is usually termed 'Narcissistic Personality Disorder'. At the risk of oversimplifying things I think the latter is unlikely to develop in an adult with an already formed personality. The former, however, are so common as to be expected to some degree or another in a large proportion of the population (especially in Western countries). In that case, yes it is possible to become more narcissistic with age for various reasons. It depends on how accurately someone is able to see themselves, and - if they still happen to love what they find - whether they are grateful for the gifts they have received, or prefer to take full credit for them.
 
34/50

Is it possible to become a narcissist ?
Because I really didn't feel like I was one when thinking about a special point in my life, where I was in a nourishing environment for me, with nourishing acquaintances. And since a major shift happened in my situation about 2.5 years ago, I feel like I fell into the trap of becoming a covert narcissist up to this day - my few (for now) recent readings lighting this point up...

A possibility I'm also thinking about is that I was already a covert narcissist before that, and that the environment in which I was was lifting me up, burying this trait down :huh:

Edit: After thinking a bit about this question before posting, reflecting on myself, I now think that I have well been one without knowing it. I was living it as to be 'normal', regarding the environment in which I grew up and then, later, put myself in.
I recently entered the topic, thanks for the possible eye opening (yet to be explored) about my family, original surroundings and what's been currently blocking myself.
Covert narcissist I think is something too that fits with an introverted schizotypal/autistic-like personality. That would be kind of having a magical thinking obsession over being special in some specific way. This kind of thinking could perhaps grow over time. I think this can come with a normal personality if you are kind of at some extremes of it.
 
I got 13.
My oppinion is that covert narcissist make few cheap tricks to impress you and then like you took a loan from them, you need to pay till the rest of your life something with an extra interest rates.
I think this yt shorts from Mikhaila Peterson's podcast shows how this looks like in relationship.
 
'You’re kind of a covert narcissist. You can be pretty self-centered, in other words, but the behavior isn’t out of control.' Some things to work on or become aware of, I guess. I wonder what the difference is between a narcissist and a psychopath. I've been around a few covert narcissists, I believe, they have a 'mask' just like a psychopath. Narcissists have done and are doing a lot of damage to others, but there is some improvement in rare cases in some narcissists. Tomatoes tomatoes, I dunno.
 
'You’re kind of a covert narcissist. You can be pretty self-centered, in other words, but the behavior isn’t out of control.' Some things to work on or become aware of, I guess. I wonder what the difference is between a narcissist and a psychopath. I've been around a few covert narcissists, I believe, they have a 'mask' just like a psychopath. Narcissists have done and are doing a lot of damage to others, but there is some improvement in rare cases in some narcissists. Tomatoes tomatoes, I dunno.
AI Overview
While both narcissists and psychopaths can exhibit manipulative and exploitative behaviors, the key difference lies in their capacity for empathy and remorse. Psychopaths generally lack empathy and remorse, while narcissists can sometimes experience these emotions, albeit often superficially.
Here's a more detailed breakdown:

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD):
  • Core Traits:
    • A sense of self-importance and grandiosity.
    • A need for excessive attention and admiration.
    • A lack of empathy for others.
    • Exploitative behavior to gain personal advantage.
    • Arrogance and a belief in their own superiority.
  • Motivation:
    Primarily driven by a need for validation and admiration.
  • Remorse:
    May experience some remorse or empathy, though often superficial and used strategically.
  • Impulsivity:
    Less impulsive than psychopaths, often calculating their actions to maintain their image.
  • Examples:
    Individuals who are overly focused on their own achievements, constantly seeking attention, and may manipulate others to feel superior.

Psychopathy:
  • Core Traits:
    • A severe lack of empathy and emotional depth.
    • Calculated and manipulative behavior.
    • A disregard for others' feelings and well-being.
    • A tendency towards deceit and manipulation.
    • Impulsivity and a disregard for consequences.
  • Motivation:
    Driven by a desire for personal gain and control, often without regard for the consequences for others.
  • Remorse:
    Generally lack empathy and remorse, making it difficult for them to feel guilt or regret for their actions.
  • Impulsivity:
    Tend to be more impulsive and reckless, often engaging in risky behaviors without considering the consequences.
  • Examples:
    Individuals who are charming and manipulative, but ultimately lack genuine care for others, and who are prone to violence or other harmful behaviors.

Key Differences Summarized:
Empathy May experience some empathy, but often superficially Generally lack empathy and remorse
Remorse May experience some remorse, but often superficially Generally lack remorse
Impulsivity Less impulsive, more calculated More impulsive and reckless
Motivation Driven by a need for validation and admiration Driven by a desire for personal gain and control







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25/50
As many other people said previously, there were a bunch of questions where I chose "neutral" because the questions are too "black & white", knowing that the way I would react depends on many factors.

AI Overview
This is funny! I asked almost the same question yesterday to shed some light on a matter, because my daughter has flagged another girl at school who has been behaving badly since the day she set foot in that school last fall, and her bad behavior seems to be escalating.

Here is what I got (note that this was asked in French to GPT, then translated to English in Google):

The behaviors you describe may be related to various personality disorders or behavioral problems. Here is a detailed explanation for each of the points you mentioned:

Behaviors of a Narcissist and Identification in Children
A narcissistic abuser (NA) is someone who manipulates, controls, and demeans others to assert their dominance. This disorder is generally associated with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and can only be officially diagnosed in adulthood. However, certain behaviors in children may indicate a risk of developing narcissistic traits:

Typical behaviors of an adult narcissistic abuser:
• Manipulation and lying to get what they want.
• Lack of empathy: They don't feel or fake the emotions of others.
• Constant need for attention and admiration.
• Devaluation of others to feel superior.
• Hiding their true colors: They play a different role depending on the person. • Enjoys controlling and creating conflict.

Signs in children:
• Difficulty admitting fault and tendency to blame others.
• Emotional manipulation: Cries or plays the victim to avoid consequences.
• Lack of empathy for friends or animals.
• Dominant behavior: Always wants to impose his will.
• Frequent lying even when it's not necessary.

Developing narcissistic or antisocial traits:
o The child enjoys being the center of attention.
o They manipulate others' emotions to achieve their goals.
o They pretend to be a victim when confronted with their actions.

⚠ In all cases, if a child exhibits these behaviors excessively and persistently, psychological care is recommended to prevent worsening in adolescence and adulthood.

⚠ Note: A child can exhibit some of these traits without becoming a narcissist. Education, environment and supervision play a key role in its development.
 
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