I think it still comes right back to sincerity. You can do the Work without ever being familiar with Gurdjieff and ISOTM. Sure, he refined the methodology and made it into a science, but none of it is weird or inexplicable or made up by him like some arbitrary ritual, it can all be summed up with sincerity. In the process of trying to be sincere with ourselves we will inevitably come across our mechanicalness/programs/i's, we just won't necessarily have the words to describe what we're seeing. But not having the right terminology won't stop us, if we are sincere, from seeing it, and not letting "it" be in charge, or at least making the effort towards that end.
So I think what's going on with MoM is lack of sincerity with himself and with others, a non-serious attitude about serious things. He isn't questioning his own assumptions, his own thoughts, his own reactions, his own emotions, feelings, etc. Yes, the material is very helpful to read - but only if you're already sincere. There have been plenty of people that came to this forum who have read all the material, and yet they had no sincerity. They knew all the terminology and concepts but they were just going through the motions, they had no intention to apply them correctly to themselves, they just adapted and twisted them to suit their own subjective programming instead.
So if MoM chooses to be sincere he won't waste our time with meaningless and empty apologies that aren't a reflection of newly gained understanding of what is going on here. He will simply be sincere and honest in his attempt to learn, and in doing that, everything else will fall into place. His confusion about "what is going on here" will also instantly disappear, he may even be surprised he was ever confused in the first place. And it's not reading the material that will make the difference because as I mentioned, many came here after having read the material and found themselves in stark opposition with the forum's goals and methods anyway leading to their quick departure. It's simply having the intention to learn the truth about himself and others, and having the ability to empathize and try to get out of ego-centric "I'm right, everyone else must be confused" perspective.
So I think what's going on with MoM is lack of sincerity with himself and with others, a non-serious attitude about serious things. He isn't questioning his own assumptions, his own thoughts, his own reactions, his own emotions, feelings, etc. Yes, the material is very helpful to read - but only if you're already sincere. There have been plenty of people that came to this forum who have read all the material, and yet they had no sincerity. They knew all the terminology and concepts but they were just going through the motions, they had no intention to apply them correctly to themselves, they just adapted and twisted them to suit their own subjective programming instead.
So if MoM chooses to be sincere he won't waste our time with meaningless and empty apologies that aren't a reflection of newly gained understanding of what is going on here. He will simply be sincere and honest in his attempt to learn, and in doing that, everything else will fall into place. His confusion about "what is going on here" will also instantly disappear, he may even be surprised he was ever confused in the first place. And it's not reading the material that will make the difference because as I mentioned, many came here after having read the material and found themselves in stark opposition with the forum's goals and methods anyway leading to their quick departure. It's simply having the intention to learn the truth about himself and others, and having the ability to empathize and try to get out of ego-centric "I'm right, everyone else must be confused" perspective.