Re: Re: Scans that show Brain of neglected child is smaller
benbuehne said:
Do I think that the information can be totally separated from the source? Not completely but you can get very very close. Even credible sources should be questioned... and sources that have proven to lack credibility can have truths mixed in with the bad information.
That is one of the fatal beliefs that amounts to "critical correction" and is discussed in Political Ponerology.
benbuehne said:
I think you are confusing my arrogance with other personality traits. My inquisitive nature may be confused with stubbornness. As such, even though I read the information provided by others through their advice that doesn't mean I blindly accept this information. I understand it and question it and I don't necessarily internalize it until knowing it to be true. As such what can be perceived as a large learning curve would be best explained by a careful analytic process. Part of that involves a separating of the source from the material. I wonder if this process is what is causing others to view me as disagreeable.
I think it has to do more with your manner of expressing yourself, a certain egoic certainty.
benbuehne said:
"95% of the time you have been wrong in your assertions."
Can you please explain to me where I have been wrong. I really have yet to get clear explanations.... only vague brushes of criticism directed at me as opposed to the content of question.
I think that is because several people keep urging you to stop, take a breath, read the reams and reams of material that is backed up with sources and citations and endless discussions that have been going on for the past umpteen years or so. If you would do that first, then people who have lives to live and do this work on a volunteer basis wouldn't have to go over the same ground again. I think people get testy when they point out that you can exert a little effort and get the job done, but you don't do it and keep coming back and saying stuff that would be corrected if you would put forth that effort!
benbuehne said:
I think it has to do more with your manner of expressing yourself, a certain egoic certainty. [/quote]
benbuehne said:
It makes me ponder if perhaps mirroring exersizes tend to show others as this not because they (the ones being "mirrored" truly are this way but because of a distortion in the mirror. I can certainly be arrogant at times... but I don't see how I have been particularly abrasive (the exception being our initial discussion Anart)... unless questioning is considered abrasive. When being called out on my arrogance I tend to ask where I overstepped and I don't usually get clear answers.
I think that is because several people keep urging you to stop, take a breath, read the reams and reams of material that is backed up with sources and citations and endless discussions that have been going on for the past umpteen years or so. If you would do that first, then people who have lives to live and do this work on a volunteer basis wouldn't have to go over the same ground again. I think people get testy when they point out that you can exert a little effort and get the job done, but you don't do it and keep coming back and saying stuff that would be corrected if you would put forth that effort!
benbuehne said:
Quite honestly it appears to me something may be wrong with this forum and there are many red flags and a lot of doubletalk.
If that is truly how you feel/think, then don't let the door hit you on the way out! There is no doubletalk, there is constant urging for you to get up to speed so that other people do not have to spend time doing the same thing over and over again when it is already available to you if you will just put forth the effort to walk through the door and partake of the feast.
benbuehne said:
When I attempt to clarify this it is usually met with a personal attack instead of addressing the issue.
What you perceive as personal attacks are people just shouting to try to get you to quit asking where the food is because they have told you 100 times it's through that door over there. You just have to shut up and go through it.
benbuehne said:
There seems to be an aura of paranoia in which if certain fundamental principals are questioned then the question is deemed irrelevant.
If that is truly how you feel/think, then don't let the door hit you on the way out! There is no doubletalk, there is constant urging for you to get up to speed so that other people do not have to spend time doing the same thing over and over again when it is already available to you if you will just put forth the effort to walk through the door and partake of the feast.
benbuehne said:
I'm told there is no authority here... yet it clearly exists... a pyramid... a hierarchy. I'm told there are no fundamental beliefs but when one is questioned the reaction is similar to just about any religious fundamentalist having a belief questioned.
It's not about belief, ben, it's about hundreds of people who have been working through these problems and topics at the academic level for YEARS and all of that material is here, free, on this forum, you just have to avail yourself of it and stop thinking that you are so speshul that any one of us can take the time to spoon feed it to YOU directly.
benbuehne said:
I honestly think this is something many here are oblivious to... and maybe mirroring in that case is required. The general attitude seems to be that no one new has anything significant to offer until dying and being reborn in the image of cassiopaea which then ignores the underlying "why" behind the reason for the current state of being. This is what I was trying to get at in this thread. http://cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php/topic,29967.0.html
That maybe there is a reason for our individuality and that there may be a significance to this even though objectivity is also important.
It's not about belief, ben, it's about hundreds of people who have been working through these problems and topics at the academic level for YEARS and all of that material is here, free, on this forum, you just have to avail yourself of it and stop thinking that you are so speshul that any one of us can take the time to spoon feed it to YOU directly.
If that is truly how you feel/think, then don't let the door hit you on the way out! There is no doubletalk, there is constant urging for you to get up to speed so that other people do not have to spend time doing the same thing over and over again when it is already available to you if you will just put forth the effort to walk through the door and partake of the feast.
benbuehne said:
Quite honestly it makes me sad. I see so much potential here. I see so much good will and quite honestly a lot of knowledge as well. However I also see a lot of logical fallacies that are frequent with the most pervasive being this ad hominem fallacy... a fallacy people here are actually defending vehemently. I would prefer, truth be told, to help enlighten others to this. I think people think I overstep there... well how could I possibly? Look at how imperfect I am... but that is the ad hominem fallacy to a T. Even if everything else I say is wrong if I get one thing right that one thing is still right... it's still truth! I think if those that are offering criticism here were to look at this objectively then they would see this is happening but I also think that a combination of groupthink, confirmation bias, cognitive dissonance, and the bandwagon fallacy will prevent this from occurring.
If that is truly how you feel/think, then don't let the door hit you on the way out!
benbuehne said:
I'll tell you what... how about if instead of encouraging me to remove myself from the forum (or banning me) you attempt to explain this stuff to me? I would like nothing more than to actively participate here but it seems a discussion and realization needs to occur on both sides prior to this happening. Maybe include some specific examples... bring in some information that I just haven't gotten to yet. If you know it's wrong but can't explain how it is wrong... then I would say you need to reconsider if it is in fact wrong.
Hundreds of people who have been working through these problems and topics at the academic level for YEARS and all of that material is here, free, on this forum, you just have to avail yourself of it and stop thinking that you are so speshul that any one of us can take the time to spoon feed it to YOU directly.
There is constant urging for you to get up to speed so that other people do not have to spend time doing the same thing over and over again when it is already available to you if you will just put forth the effort to walk through the door and partake of the feast.
And notice that I repeat myself with the handy copy/paste function. Why? Because I am usually doing a dozen things at once and my time is limited and there are hundreds of us that have put years of effort into getting material together and up on the websites for people to have free access to so that we can work on other projects having to do with getting even more difficult material up for free. So you are welcome to avail yourself of it or not.
Let me remind you that the Forum Guidelines explicitly describe the materials you need to be familiar with in order to enter the discourse at speed. We further have reading lists AND reams of excerpts on the forum. In some cases, we will make copies of books available to readers who cannot afford to buy them.
Bottom line is, empty your cup if you want to learn. If you think you already know and you find yourself in disagreement, then go start your own forum. We've collected and assessed the evidence and made years of experiments both in real life and here on the forum and like I said, it's not about belief; we have a clue or two that we do know what we are talking about.