CLAUS SAID:
Maybe you can help me out here...
So the fire is there, but when YOU put your hands in it, YOU did that, the fire was only there.
Maybe that was a bad example for what you wantet to say.
My thoughts are in the direktion, that you decide if it is good or bad, but at the end it is neutral (neither good nor bad) and you learn from the experience you have and then you judge, if it is good or bad (from what you experinenced), but maybe it is to us to learn that everything only IS, nothing else... (do not judge).
Thank you :)
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NO CLAUS, MY INTENT WAS NOT TO JUDGE, I JUST WANTED TO DIALOGUE.
LATER I CONTINUE WITH THE REPLY, I HAVE PROBLEM WITH THE SIZE OF THE LETTERS.