logos5x5 said:zim said:Hi
I began EE program some weeks ago but I still can not concentrate well , I have try to make a good time to do it but I feel block, I have post some questions that I have a long time ago but after trying to meditate I realized that Im afraid to open my mind too much..... I really feel block!!!:/ What can I do ?
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HI Zim, this IMO could have various causes, depends on you to observe and identify them, for example, have you made the suggested detox diet and dietary changes? Have you read the Big 5 psychology books? I'm rereading some of them and I found them very very useful for all the healing process itself, to notice what's really going on inside of us and find names and concepts of all the going ons, gives us the tools and means to Work some stuff we doesn't even know is there. Also, to improve the concentration try to use a 'seed' during the meditation part, this has been discussed too in this thread, you could use the search option to gain a good understanding about it. So patience and don´t give up :).
zim said:Hi
After some time with doubts about the EE program I realized that I began to block my self to take out my feelings a lot time ago mainly to not show to my kids all my suffering and try to give them a good atmosphere to live althought I was devastated, so I understood now where it come from, I´ll try to made more the EE program but I have another doubt why in the meditated we have to say the Prayer of the Soul I though say a phrase was a kind of ritual ????![]()
herondancer said:zim said:Hi
After some time with doubts about the EE program I realized that I began to block my self to take out my feelings a lot time ago mainly to not show to my kids all my suffering and try to give them a good atmosphere to live althought I was devastated, so I understood now where it come from, I´ll try to made more the EE program but I have another doubt why in the meditated we have to say the Prayer of the Soul I though say a phrase was a kind of ritual ????![]()
Hi Zim,
That is a good realization about how you've handled your emotions. But what makes you think they don't feel something is wrong. Kids are incredibly perceptive, even if they don't exactly know what is going on with their parents. And they will respond to the subconscious hints and cues they get. You will do them an incredible service by healing your own emotions by practising EE. It really is a complete program for clearing out all those unconscious forces and healing them.
The Prayer is a meditation seed. Laura explains its origins here. If you just say or think the words without really contemplating them, then yes, it can devolve into a mindless ritual. It is supposed to be contemplated, right down to the meaning each word has for you, then putting the words together as they form the Prayer, and what each line means for you. I've found it helpful to make it two different activities. You may find the meanings may change for you over time. When you hear Laura speaking the Prayer and do the breathing, you are "primed" so to speak, to let it sink deeper into your being, while you become more and more relaxed. It's a process.
If you put "Prayer of the Soul" (in quotes, just like that) into the search function, you will find discussions in many sections of the Forum about different aspects of it, and how forum members are incorporating it into their lives.
hope that helps,
Herondancer
zim said:Can I do the EE program in two parts I mean can I do the meditate part alone before sleep somedays or I have to do all the EE program together ?
Oxajil said:zim said:Can I do the EE program in two parts I mean can I do the meditate part alone before sleep somedays or I have to do all the EE program together ?
Hi zim,
Yes, you can do only the meditation before sleeping.
You can do the whole/all the EE program (warming-up > 3-stage breathing > warrior's breath > BaHa (if you can) > meditation) once or twice a week, or more if you want.
And it is very recommended to do the meditation every night (or day). And if you're really sleepy, it's okay then if you can't concentrate on the words of the prayer, just let it play. But if you can, try to concentrate on Laura's voice and the meaning of the words as herondancer recommended.
If you want you can also do the 3-Stage Breathing and Warrior's Breath every morning.
But what is the most important is:
- meditation every night
- pipe breathing whenever you feel like (in stressful situations and/or when you're in pain for example)
- full program atleast once or twice a week (if possible)
zim said:Oxajil said:zim said:Can I do the EE program in two parts I mean can I do the meditate part alone before sleep somedays or I have to do all the EE program together ?
Hi zim,
Yes, you can do only the meditation before sleeping.
You can do the whole/all the EE program (warming-up > 3-stage breathing > warrior's breath > BaHa (if you can) > meditation) once or twice a week, or more if you want.
And it is very recommended to do the meditation every night (or day). And if you're really sleepy, it's okay then if you can't concentrate on the words of the prayer, just let it play. But if you can, try to concentrate on Laura's voice and the meaning of the words as herondancer recommended.
If you want you can also do the 3-Stage Breathing and Warrior's Breath every morning.
But what is the most important is:
- meditation every night
- pipe breathing whenever you feel like (in stressful situations and/or when you're in pain for example)
- full program atleast once or twice a week (if possible)
Hi Oxajil
Thanks for your answer It looks to me made the 3 Stage Breathing and the warrior´s breath in the morning but I think I didnt do the pipe breath very well, I breath in good but when I breath out and say haa I dont know if I have to make some other movement in my mouth so can do it better?
Nienna Eluch said:zim said:Oxajil said:zim said:Can I do the EE program in two parts I mean can I do the meditate part alone before sleep somedays or I have to do all the EE program together ?
Hi zim,
Yes, you can do only the meditation before sleeping.
You can do the whole/all the EE program (warming-up > 3-stage breathing > warrior's breath > BaHa (if you can) > meditation) once or twice a week, or more if you want.
And it is very recommended to do the meditation every night (or day). And if you're really sleepy, it's okay then if you can't concentrate on the words of the prayer, just let it play. But if you can, try to concentrate on Laura's voice and the meaning of the words as herondancer recommended.
If you want you can also do the 3-Stage Breathing and Warrior's Breath every morning.
But what is the most important is:
- meditation every night
- pipe breathing whenever you feel like (in stressful situations and/or when you're in pain for example)
- full program atleast once or twice a week (if possible)
Hi Oxajil
Thanks for your answer It looks to me made the 3 Stage Breathing and the warrior´s breath in the morning but I think I didnt do the pipe breath very well, I breath in good but when I breath out and say haa I dont know if I have to make some other movement in my mouth so can do it better?
Hi zim,
It's not your mouth that you have to "make different", but your throat. When you say a long, drawn-out Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa, can you feel your throat constrict? It's actually the glottis that you are constricting, your voice box, so to say. If you can feel the constriction, try to make it even more pronounced (deeper sounding). It sounds sort of like a person having an asthma attack, or Darth Vadar, if you will.
When you breathe in through the nose, your glottis needs to have that same constriction as when you breathe out. Only you are bringing the air in through the nose. What is weird is when you do it right, it doesn't feel like you are breathing with your nose, even though your mouth is shut. That's because you can feel the constriction in the glottis more and you can feel the air going through it.
I hope that helps. :)
SolarMother said:Nienna Eluch said:zim said:Hi Oxajil
Thanks for your answer It looks to me made the 3 Stage Breathing and the warrior´s breath in the morning but I think I didnt do the pipe breath very well, I breath in good but when I breath out and say haa I dont know if I have to make some other movement in my mouth so can do it better?
Hi zim,
It's not your mouth that you have to "make different", but your throat. When you say a long, drawn-out Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa, can you feel your throat constrict? It's actually the glottis that you are constricting, your voice box, so to say. If you can feel the constriction, try to make it even more pronounced (deeper sounding). It sounds sort of like a person having an asthma attack, or Darth Vadar, if you will.
When you breathe in through the nose, your glottis needs to have that same constriction as when you breathe out. Only you are bringing the air in through the nose. What is weird is when you do it right, it doesn't feel like you are breathing with your nose, even though your mouth is shut. That's because you can feel the constriction in the glottis more and you can feel the air going through it.
I hope that helps. :)
Ah, Nienna!
That explanation reee-ally helped! By golly, I've got it now!
Turns out I have been doing the inbreath correctly, but not the out-breath, Haaaaa....(sounding like Darth Vader)glottis and all.
When you breathe in through the nose, your glottis needs to have that same constriction as when you breathe out. Only you are bringing the air in through the nose. What is weird is when you do it right, it doesn't feel like you are breathing with your nose, even though your mouth is shut. That's because you can feel the constriction in the glottis more and you can feel the air going through it.
Stevie Argyll said:Nienna
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When you breathe in through the nose, your glottis needs to have that same constriction as when you breathe out. Only you are bringing the air in through the nose. What is weird is when you do it right, it doesn't feel like you are breathing with your nose, even though your mouth is shut. That's because you can feel the constriction in the glottis more and you can feel the air going through it.
Can you explain the reasons for constricting the glottis on inhalation, is this for continued vagus effect or some other reason?
Clarekav said:I think this is the right thread to post this.
I finally did the EE programme completely.