Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

Re: Pornography & the Cyberpath

purplehaze said:
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2008/08/pornography-cyberpath.html

Our latest article.
Yes, some very important information there on a topic that is rarely publicly discussed
 
Re: Pornography & the Cyberpath

Yes one of our exposed Cyberpaths (exposed about 3 years ago) tried erasing all his porn, his hooker "reviews", his casual sex dating profiles and then told his wife & family that his victims "planted them" Despite the fact that the police already had taken screen shots and track his IP back and given the information to his victims. Also, he even convinced his wife & family that somehow the victims 'backdated' the stuff to BEFORE HE EVEN STARTED SPEAKING TO THEM!!

Here's the story links: (Long but VERY MUCH worth a read) http://cyberpathlinks.blogspot.com/2007/06/j-aka-gridney-aka-yidwithlid-aka-sammy.html

The denial of some people is unbelievable.
 
Re: Pornography & the Cyberpath

Autobot said:
...and many red flags to look for in potential partners.

Speaking as a father with daughters, it seems like it would be useful for her to ask some questions about a guys thoughts or 'feelings' on pornography. Even if we assume that the guy might lie, especially if he thinks she would disapprove, maybe she could get some revealing information if she asks from the 'other person' angle? Something like "How do you think most people feel about...[insert question here]?

Also, I think developing the link between pornography and psychopathy may be an important way to introduce the concept of the 'every day psychopath' into the minds of the general public.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

Greetings:

I'm amazed of ALL THIS INFO displayed. I have to say that this was really informative and useful! I was reading three articles at the same time because I met a lot of people like that: Friends, parents and this info...

The emotional abuser often plays pushme-pullyou. He will indicate that his interest in his partner is waning, and when she begins to start separating from him, he will become attentive and interested again. He may even use sex as a weapon against her - by telling her that she isn't paying enough attention to him, spending enough time with him, or isn't initiating sex enough, but then will reject her advances when she tries to initiate.
Reference: http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/​

[Personal Experience]

That quote matches perfectly with the behavior of the ex-boyfriend of my girlfriend. She met him in Internet, he started to make her feel especial in some way, "painting her world pink colored". When she met her in "real-life" two months later, he started to act different, being possessive, he only was feeling better when he had sex with her. She was tortured psychologically for a year and and some months. She KNEW that he was hurting her but she didn't want to stop their relation. She couldn't endure that anymore and finished her relation with him. He started to act more "emotionally connected" but...

(...) and when she begins to start separating from him, he will become attentive and interested again.

And as I said her after she told me the whole story: "No matter how could act a crow, his wings always will be black". We're almost a year together and, still, she can't forget all the pain that he carved in her heart. Doesn't matter if it internet, "real-life", etc. the results are the same: nice people being hurt.

Even this: "BEWARE THE RAGE OF A CYBERPATH WHEN CAUGHT" happened.

- do everything they can to make YOU look like the sick, mentally ill or not credible person
They may hack your computer, your email and alter or delete files.

This people is capable of everything...



About the pornography, geez... that was really shocking. ALMOST ALL of my friends see women as objetcs, "sexual toys", just seeing their bodies, having desires with them and that makes me sick! One of my friend started to act like that when his girlfriend left him because she cheated him. He told me that I am "weird" because I cannot see girls like him (As "toys"). Of course, a lot of them meet people through internet: Facebook, My Space, Metroflogs, etc...

There're no feelings, there're no consideration there's nothing but pure biological impulses (Frequently "programed" by this all rotten media). You see girls exposing themselves as objetcs and boys looking for those girls as animals.

Well, I will keep looking to this blog. Very useful information, I'm glad to read it. ;)

Take care.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

Thank you Cyrus -- our blog is FOR people like you. It's a real education into the pathology that happens online; more often than you think. Media & police never investigate these people who cause emotional devastation and trauma -- but it is real and can harm people/ families for years & years.

You would be very interested in this article of ours:

http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2006/12/lures-of-online-predator.html



Cyrus Wallace said:
Greetings:

I'm amazed of ALL THIS INFO displayed. I have to say that this was really informative and useful! I was reading three articles at the same time because I met a lot of people like that: Friends, parents and this info...

[Personal Experience]

That quote matches perfectly with the behavior of the ex-boyfriend of my girlfriend. She met him in Internet, he started to make her feel especial in some way, "painting her world pink colored". When she met her in "real-life" two months later, he started to act different, being possessive, he only was feeling better when he had sex with her. She was tortured psychologically for a year and and some months. She KNEW that he was hurting her but she didn't want to stop their relation. She couldn't endure that anymore and finished her relation with him. He started to act more "emotionally connected" but...

(...) and when she begins to start separating from him, he will become attentive and interested again.

And as I said her after she told me the whole story: "No matter how could act a crow, his wings always will be black". We're almost a year together and, still, she can't forget all the pain that he carved in her heart. Doesn't matter if it internet, "real-life", etc. the results are the same: nice people being hurt.

Well, I will keep looking to this blog. Very useful information, I'm glad to read it. ;)

Take care.
 
Re: Pornography & the Cyberpath

Not many men and particularly not pathologicals, like Cyberpaths, are going to be honest about their view of pornography. We had one cyberpath tell one target he was addicted to porn and another that he NEVER looked at porn; simultaneously.

We have also had a few Cyberpaths who covertly used web-enabled photo sharing to capture pics of their cyber-friends/ partners, without the other person knowing, and sell these pics to porn sites. Some of our victims may be porn stars and not even know it!

This site on the effects of pornography on the public may be of use: http://www.nopornnorthampton.org/

You may want to search the web for blogs or sites written by porn-addicts. A (very) few actually do want to come clean.


Buddy said:
Speaking as a father with daughters, it seems like it would be useful for her to ask some questions about a guys thoughts or 'feelings' on pornography. Even if we assume that the guy might lie, especially if he thinks she would disapprove, maybe she could get some revealing information if she asks from the 'other person' angle? Something like "How do you think most people feel about...[insert question here]?

Also, I think developing the link between pornography and psychopathy may be an important way to introduce the concept of the 'every day psychopath' into the minds of the general public.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

I love the Exposing Online Predators website, the information presented there is invaluable.

I am a member and my story is listed on the website.

I hope to see more people read the site and gain some education in the aspects of cyberpaths/NPD/NLP etc , it's very misunderstood in the professional and public field.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

Thanks BlackMumba -- NLP can be a very transformative tool; but in the wrong hands -- its an outright weapon!

Here's this month's Cyberpath:
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2008/12/december-2008-predator-of-month-robert.html

...another "met him on a X-tian dating site and thought he was o.k. because he said he was a X-tian."
Psychopaths will use ANYONE & ANYTHING to make themselves look good.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

I agree Purplehaze! My story is listed as "Gareth Rodger" on the cyberpaths site. He used NLP on me constantly throughout our relationship.

I didn't know it at the time just how dangerous NLP is in the wrong hands.

I haven't read cyberpaths blog this week so Ill go check out the link now, i have been so busy in the run up to christmas I haven't kept up with the updates!
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

I tried to access http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com but it has apparently been removed.
I'm not sure whether it has merely changed address, in which case I would be curious to know where to find it.

In any case, I thought I'd bring this to the mods' attention since this is a sticky thread.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

You can access the archives from the Wayback Machine:

_http://web.archive.org/web/*/http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/

However, exercise caution. The only page I had problems with was the 2007 page, which showed this:

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No actual password was required however, but my pc may have been infected with something. But I can handle that.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

Thanks Bud!

It's a pity that the blog is no longer in use and being updated, it seemed like a good tool to expose online predators.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

Gertrudes said:
I tried to access http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com but it has apparently been removed.
I'm not sure whether it has merely changed address, in which case I would be curious to know where to find it.

In any case, I thought I'd bring this to the mods' attention since this is a sticky thread.

Dern...it looks like they've been taken down. Google got a court order about someone too:


site:cyberpaths.blogspot.com
In response to a legal request submitted to Google, we have removed 1 result(s) from this page. If you wish, you may read more about the request at ChillingEffects.org.

Notice Unavailable
Court Order

The cease-and-desist or legal threat you requested is not yet available.

Chilling Effects will post the notice after we process it.

Google has received a legal complaint and submitted it here to the Chilling Effects database, as described in Google's Digital Millennium Copyright Act policy. In response to the complaint, Google may have removed content from a search results page or hosted page.
 
Re: Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths

Oh no - we are still VERY much alive. The blog was NEVER taken down.
That complaint was filed by a complete kook... we just re-ran his expose at the request of his victims. Close to 3 years and he has not given up. Everyone who's name he finds via our site becomes one of his persecutors (or one of us)...
Just a quick look at his latest blog of delusions will suffice: __http://cybercrimerickkineelainemaysmith.blogspot.com/__

He makes wild (and amusingly incorrect) accusations about who the Fighters are, believes we are all women... while we often do log in from one server in the U.S. - we are not all from the U.S. A couple new Fighters have joined us in the last couple years and a couple have left and moved on with their healing but are still very supportive of us.

So yes, we are STILL around!
___http:// cyberpaths.blogspot.com___

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