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I do not understand the above statement. Can you please clarify?MoskoeOne said:...The balance is always between individual predatory behaviour, and collective predatory behaviour...
I do not understand the above statement. Can you please clarify?MoskoeOne said:...The balance is always between individual predatory behaviour, and collective predatory behaviour...
truth seeker said:No worries, Happyville. We are very inclusive, creative and enjoy the wonders of discovery. I would have thought that you were aware of that being a member here for almost 4 years now? :)Happyville said:Perhaps this issue is personal to you for some reason?
Not overly personal - I just prefer airing on the side of inclusion, creativity and discovery.
MoskoeOne said:Laura could you explain why you think the book might be helpful? So we can reflect on whether its relevance is pressing for us personally?
Actually, I think this happens quite often here. All of us come here with our own preconceptions about the world and many of us have been quite surprised upon learning that all is not as it seems. This is a transformation, yes?luke wilson said:However, through a series of discussions and replies, he will soon discover that actually, the ideas that he cherished so much that brought him here after all, don't hold much water. Now he can fight and defend them to his detriment or he can make a choice of compromise. The third option is the most unlikely where he will actually see the points of the admins and be transformed by them... I think this is unlikely because in 3D communication like that just doesn't happen.
I think you fail to see that the 'wound' as you call it doesn't begin here. We all arrive here already wounded. Whether one chooses to attempt to heal or not, depends upon them.luke wilson said:Now if he compromises, he is going to go around with a tiny little wound in him, a wound that will always be fresh and never heal. The only thing left is the 'opportunity' where he can come forward and 'avenge' his wound.
Perhaps that's the real issue? When we become identified with anything, it keeps us living in illusion and unable to see the crux of the matter. Because of your identification with past wounds that have been afflicted through your own past, you view the world in black and white terms - persecuted and persecutor. The inability to discern - in this case to always see yourself as the victim - is a refusal to take responsibility for your own past and current thinking that keeps you there. This denial of responsibility also keeps you comfortable as it reflects your own upbringing and the mechanisms developed that helped a small child survive. The problem comes when one grows up and finds that those same mechanisms no longer work yet are applied - projected - onto any situation that allows you to continue playing the role of victim. This keeps one chasing their tail so to speak. This can also be applied to experiences relating to high strangeness.luke wilson said:I believe this right here is such an opportunity. Not for MoskoeOne, but for others crazy enough to step forward. Why am I thinking this way? Because, sadly, I identify with all these people. And to my mind, even the most reformed person isn't that reformed, I am yet to meet true transformation, to me, everybody is carrying a wound that they somehow don't want to express due to various reasons... Especially in group situations where the group ideal holds more value than the individual ideal. I find the thing that most people don't understand, even me and I have suffered greatly for it, is that by participating in a group, you agreed to an implied contract - and that is the thing, no one is sure as to the exact terms since it is a whole group thing. And it is rare, that your values/desires/thoughts and wishes allign perfectly with the terms of the contract. Thus the inevitable conflict..
luke wilson said:[...] Be amongst equals... [...]
luke wilson said:[...] The third option is the most unlikely where he will actually see the points of the admins and be transformed by them... I think this is unlikely because in 3D communication like that just doesn't happen. [...]
luke wilson said:[...] Now if he compromises, he is going to go around with a tiny little wound in him, a wound that will always be fresh and never heal. The only thing left is the 'opportunity' where he can come forward and 'avenge' his wound. [...]
luke wilson said:[...] I am yet to meet true transformation, to me, everybody is carrying a wound that they somehow don't want to express due to various reasons... [...]
truth seeker said:Actually, I think this happens quite often here. All of us come here with our own preconceptions about the world and many of us have been quite surprised upon learning that all is not as it seems. This is a transformation, yes?
truth seeker said:I think you fail to see that the 'wound' as you call it doesn't begin here. We all arrive here already wounded. Whether one chooses to attempt to heal or not, depends upon them.
truth seeker said:Perhaps that's the real issue? When we become identified with anything, it keeps us living in illusion and unable to see the crux of the matter. Because of your identification with past wounds that have been afflicted through your own past, you view the world in black and white terms - persecuted and persecutor. The inability to discern - in this case to always see yourself as the victim - is a refusal to take responsibility for your own past and current thinking that keeps you there. This denial of responsibility also keeps you comfortable as it reflects your own upbringing and the mechanisms developed that helped a small child survive. The problem comes when one grows up and finds that those same mechanisms no longer work yet are applied - projected - onto any situation that allows you to continue playing the role of victim. This keeps one chasing their tail so to speak. This can also be applied to experiences relating to high strangeness.
al today said:Depends upon what is expected by the word "transformation". If the expectation is a persons' DNA changes and they now have the ability to travel between densities, have paranormal powers/abilities, or evolve into a superior being? Then no, I also have never met one.
But if a person evolves in knowledge and growth into a "better" human being. If one grows more knowledgeable of this mechanical life and more aware of the environment that surrounds them... If one can Work towards understanding and actions, work away from carnal selfishness and emanate outwards to their fellow human being and this BBM, then yes, I have met one. For I myself believe I am not the same person I was nearly 10 years ago and am continuing to transform.
luke wilson said:I don't think identification is that bad. Without identification one can't hold himself in one place. The only reason I can perceive anything around me through my senses is because my senses identify with the stimuli, like light, touch, sound etc.
ISOTM said:This in its turn is connected with one of the fundamental characteristics of man's attitude towards himself and to all his surroundings. Namely, his constant 'identification' with what at a given moment has attracted his attention, his thoughts or his desires, and his imagination.
Identification' is so common a quality that for purposes of observation it is difficult to separate it from everything else. Man is always in a state of identification, only the object of identification changes.
A man identifies with a small problem which confronts him and he completely forgets the great aims with which he began his work. He identifies with one thought and forgets other thoughts; he is identified with one feeling, with one mood, and forgets his own wider thoughts, emotions, and moods. In work on themselves people are so much identified with separate aims that they fail to see the wood for the trees. Two or three trees nearest to them represent for them the whole wood.
Identifying' is one of our most terrible foes because it penetrates everywhere and deceives a man at the moment when it seems to him that he is struggling with it. It is especially difficult to free oneself from identifying because a man naturally becomes more easily identified with the things that interest him most, to which he gives his time, his work, and his attention. In order to free himself from identifying a man must be constantly on guard and be merciless with himself, that is, he must not be afraid of seeing all the subtle and hidden forms which identifying takes.
It is necessary to see and to study identifying to its very roots in oneself. The difficulty of struggling with identifying is still further increased by the fact that when people observe it in themselves they consider it a very good trait and call it 'enthusiasm,' 'zeal,' 'passion,' 'spontaneity,' 'inspiration,' and names of that kind, and they consider that only in a state of identifying can a man really produce good work, no matter in what sphere. In reality of course this is illusion. Man cannot do anything sensible when he is in a state of identifying. If people could see what the state of identifying means they would alter their opinion. A man becomes a thing, a piece of flesh; he loses even the small semblance of a human being that he has. In the East where people smoke hashish and other drugs it often happens that a man becomes so identified with his pipe that he begins to consider he is a pipe himself. This is not a joke but a fact. He actually becomes a pipe. This is identifying.
It is soul questing:luke wilson said:Laura got where she is because she is identified to seeking truth...
Q: (L) What is it that gives some people this drive, this steamroller effect that they are determined to get to the absolute bottom of everything and strip away every lie until there is nothing left but the naked truth? What is the source of this desire?
A: Wrong concept. It is simply that one is at that point on the learning cycle. At that point, no drive is needed.
Q: (L) So, you more or less are there because some critical mass has been reached that 'jumps' you to the point where seeking truth is simply who you are? It defines the parameters of your being.
This in its turn is connected with one of the fundamental characteristics of man's attitude towards himself and to all his surroundings. Namely, his constant 'identification' with what at a given moment has attracted his attention, his thoughts or his desires, and his imagination