Gimpy said:
This is a technique I can vouch for! :D I never thought a pretty tea set would make a difference, but it did. Now I hunt for tea shops everywhere, and even discovered one very close to home, an all organic bookstore tea shop, which I never would have found if not for stopping coffee. I did have to stop having afternoon tea, and switch to a decaf version, but on the whole, I don't miss coffee at all.
Yup. Never underestimate the power of "presentation".
In the olden days when I ate veggies, people would comment on how colorful my plate was. I always liked varied colors on my dinner plate. I also tend to like certain plates, of a certain size and shape, with certain colors. It adds to the meal.
Plus, you could try using a bigger plate even for smaller amounts of food. Moving to a smaller plate can mean to your brain that you aren't eating as much. So, why not use the big plate with less food on it? On the other hand, maybe seeing an overflowing plate is better for your brain than a large plate with less (and more healthy) food on it.
Why are holiday meals so good? Well, certainly there is yummy food, but there is also usually dishware and silverware of a higher quality... the meal is something "special".
If I have herbal tea or cocoa or something in the evening, I like to use my Star Wars mug. It makes it more fun. And if my Star Wars mug is MIA? Well! Then I get to complain about it, AND I get to have fun choosing a new mug just for that night from among the vast selection available. Thus, it's still special.
The point is that our brains fool us all the time, so when it comes to food and drink, why not fool them back?
Of course, it's always good to shake things up. If you get used to dining on fine china, it will soon become the norm and then you'll need to find some solid gold plates or something.
As for tea sets, you can always add another set later if necessary, mix and match, and do other things to keep it special. Besides, who drinks coffee in fancy cups? Not anyone I know!