Gimpy said:Laura said:MissK, don't worry about chickening out and resistance and all that. Just go shopping for the beautiful cup and saucer. Maybe even a whole tea set with the pot and a bowl for the xylitol and a nice spoon, and start having a CHOICE.
Having a cup of tea can be "doing something nice for myself". Don't even try to cut out coffee at first. Just start having tea as a choice.
This is a technique I can vouch for! :D I never thought a pretty tea set would make a difference, but it did. Now I hunt for tea shops everywhere, and even discovered one very close to home, an all organic bookstore tea shop, which I never would have found if not for stopping coffee. I did have to stop having afternoon tea, and switch to a decaf version, but on the whole, I don't miss coffee at all.
This is an extraordinary idea. Reminds me of my pleasure when I read Victorian novels, how important is the tea for them, like a ritual. Myself I will check for a set like this. This is very beautiful.