I was talking about this very thing with some friends recently. How grotesque and the furthest from womanhood/human being they try to look like, some of these people who call themselves Trans.
In contrast: I remember watching the Eurovision song contest in 1998 with family and friends, when Dana International appeared on the screen to represent Israel. It was the first time I ever saw a trans person, and if it wasn't already mentioned, from the way she looked, sang and behaved, I would think she was born female. Did she feel like a woman in a man's body? She did her best to look like one, a good-looking woman at that, if that's how she felt inside, it was manifested outwards. And from what I recall, nobody was offended or said anything negative from my traditional/naive-about-these-things family and friends circle. We were all "Wow, I can't believe this is a man" stunned. (there are probably a few things to be said about why Israel send this particular artist to represent them, why they won, etc, but that's another topic)
For those who never heard of Dana International, here's the performance I am talking about:
The male above with the huge fake breasts confuses, disturbs, and disgusts the viewer because he has not applied any effort to look like any woman, but on the contrary, he looks like something that is barely human in form. What is he really manifesting outwardly that is inside of him? I shudder to think about it. Benjamin's post about the Hentai explains some.
Sadly, I agree with you that this is where this is going. If and when there is a backlash, gay people will be grouped together with all that, because perverts and pedos who are not gay or trans but pretend to be to hide their perversions, have included you already to raise their numbers. I think that, as you do, all of our gay members need to be openly critical and vocal against all these abominations, as much as possible, so that people around you know where you stand. Well, within safe limits, of course, you wouldn't want the wrath of the woke mob targeting you. It's a fine line to walk and my advice is probably too naive, so FWIW.