A lot of sexual data on on sexuality and relationships came out of my research and in terms of the whole transexual area and everything to just preface this, predators have absolutely no boundaries around sexuality. They will do anything, they will say anything, they use sexuality to demean, to humiliate, to control, to leverage. Sexuality is a tool. At the same time it is something they will explore in anyway they can; their own children, the family pet. They all have proclivities like we all do, we all have our own sexual proclivity. A lot of them will go for children, they will go for adults and children and anything. They are fascinated by all things sexual. They know if they’re higher functioning they have to hide it so they will use religion, they will use a marriage, they will use charities as things to hide behind so they can continue a life of child porn addiction or pedophilia or the whole transexual thing is part of that. They are fascinated by transexuals at all forms of transition. So for example one of them was talking about liking to see breast and a penis at the same time. Anything that’s kind of not totally the norm. A high number f them are actually drawn into transsexual or will become transsexual because that’s what they like to do because it’s interesting. So you do get a high number that have all those attributes of deceptive bullying, lying, wanting control, wanting a platform and I can say definitely that there are people who are genuinely born into a body that does not reflect who they are and I feel sad for these people, not sorry for them but sad for them because these predators have made if really difficult for them by engaging in these behaviours that they love to engage in which is bullying. They’re taking on a trans identity for their own selfish reasons and all predators are only about themselves. Anything that they might do that looks good, like donating to charity or whatever, it is all about their own goals which are about maintaining lack of exposure, maintaining this secret life because they hate their freedom to be taken away in any way. So, it’s about hiding, about achieving their goals, it’s about getting away with all the stuff they want to get away with often which is morally dubious, against the law or breaks regulations or rules or agreements. They all have double lives. I’ve interviewed a lot of people on these issues separately to my PhD so I’ve got a huge background in this and most marriages, we talk to women and men but there are more men that are predatory. We don’t have enough data on this but so far the data shows that most partners acknowledge that they have been kind of duped because this person has had this whole other life going on the whole time.
Mike Hart: So when you say that do you mean like the partner was gay but they kind of married someone to look normal, or not not normal, but to appear heterosexual so that they didn’t have to face any backlash for potentially being homosexual or…?
Karen Mitchell: No, these dark personalities from my research are drawn to either sex and I’m using the word ‘sex’ in the biological terms so the male sex or the female sex. So they are drawn to both, and again this data needs to be tested but I have got a lot of information that shows that. So what they might do is be in a normal heterosexual marriage, but then at night they’re on these dating sites with men. So it might be a male that marries a female in a normal heterosexual relationship but again using that heterosexual relationship and having children. Often children are part of the look, the cover. There was one case where he was taking naked photos of his wife, and then putting them online to attract men and then having sex with men. This might sound like a bit of a oneoff, this might be a bit of this guy was actually taken to court for this behaviour and guess what? He was the head of integrity in a law enforcement area. I won’t tell you what country, but there’s a lot in law enforcement because they love the control, they can just say ‘well, I’m the police person,’ or ‘I’m the law enforcement person so I have power over you.’ That’s why you see sadistic behaviour sometimes in law enforcement because they can’t help themselves but do that.