Thankyou for all the replies :).
Altair said:
Perhaps this one Character Disturbance: The Phenomenon of Our Age. I'd recommend to read the big 5 books in proper order, though (as in the list).
Anthony said:
There's also Alice Miller's work such as The Drama of the Gifted Child that is very worth checking out.
hlat said:
Yes, Character Disturbance. Then perhaps When the Body Says No or the Narcissistic Family.
Both these books have a lot of good reviews, so I'll check them out, thanks.
I'm currently reading When the Body Says No (great book) and am keen to get the Narcissistic Family.
All these books sure do add up, but what price knowledge? Took a copy of the recommended books list to my local library, but came up empty on their database. Kindle editions can save some cash though and I've managed to get a few used books at good prices, so I'll keep an eye out.