Psalehesost
The Living Force
A book that has been recommended as a must-read, and which will be added to the next version of the list, is When the Body Says No by Gabor Mate. (Amazon.) As discussed in the thread (which includes a video by the author on the subject), it deals with how emotional and interpersonal issues relate to chronic stress, which in turn evetually results in chronic illnesses.
In short, when we don't say no (in all manner of ways and contexts where we should, for the sake of both psychological and physical health), then the body eventually says no. And the way that the body says no, perhaps sooner or perhaps after many years, can often end up deadly - though unless it has already happened and the issues have progressed too far, there is still hope (for prevention and for recovery), if we learn to consciously say no and make our lives psychologically and interpersonally healthier.
Check the thread for more info - the above is just a rough summary. Laura strongly urges that it go on top on the list for everyone.
The one really important thing that this book misses in relation to stress and illness is the dietary information, so in regards to health, the diet info also remains top priority. Sorting out one's diet (see Health and Diet info and links in the Guide) can help reduce stress, increase ability to handle stress, help with a variety of health problems, and can have psychological benefits as well. But neither is a substitute for the other; the two approaches go hand in hand, and if you're unfamiliar with one or both of them, looking into them is strongly recommended.
In short, when we don't say no (in all manner of ways and contexts where we should, for the sake of both psychological and physical health), then the body eventually says no. And the way that the body says no, perhaps sooner or perhaps after many years, can often end up deadly - though unless it has already happened and the issues have progressed too far, there is still hope (for prevention and for recovery), if we learn to consciously say no and make our lives psychologically and interpersonally healthier.
Check the thread for more info - the above is just a rough summary. Laura strongly urges that it go on top on the list for everyone.
The one really important thing that this book misses in relation to stress and illness is the dietary information, so in regards to health, the diet info also remains top priority. Sorting out one's diet (see Health and Diet info and links in the Guide) can help reduce stress, increase ability to handle stress, help with a variety of health problems, and can have psychological benefits as well. But neither is a substitute for the other; the two approaches go hand in hand, and if you're unfamiliar with one or both of them, looking into them is strongly recommended.