SMM
The Living Force
United Gnosis said:I lean towards a similar trend of thought. The problem for me is, on the intellectual aspect I'm kind of a hoarder, so that when I realized my potential weakness to NLP I went on a digital "raid" and obtained a variety of NLP reference books... which I haven't touched yet. I also have previously obtained many books from the Psychopathy, Narcissism and Cognitive Science subsections, all of which sit on my shelves, begging for my time and attention.
The core of my question was where I should focus my attention if my priority is to establish this subtype of mental hygiene, i.e. resilience in face of external manipulation/suggestion factors. Self-remembering and observing emotional/mental processes will clearly be vital, and I am frank enough to admit to myself that much more internal work remains to be done, but I think it makes sense to make a parenthesis in order to establish more specialized awareness of/against manipulation techniques.
If I do not receive any specific suggestions before I finish my current reading, my guess is that my next read will be the NLP Workbook by Joseph O'Connor with Thinking, Fast and Slow as a reading companion, and see where it goes.
I have similar disposition in regards to the intellect & wonder where my focus next should be to establish mental [& emotional] hygiene.
My current reading is alternating between Trapped in the Mirror, Wave: Through A Glass Darkly & Strangers to Ourselves. Thinking, Fast & Slow sounds like a good companion with NLP material, as well as the power of suggestion hypnotic or otherwise, in observing thought operations/systems taking place osit.
Minas Tirith said:I read your post a couple of days ago and didn't intend to answer, but had, then, yesterday, two interactions with what I would call "narcisstic beings". In reflecting these interactions I found that narcissists seemingly try to manipulate you through your emotional center, whereas NLPers do the same through your intellectual center. I don't want to take up space here and it's a bit OT, just want to offer my thoughts.
Since you seem to have a "weak spot" for intellectual stuff (shooting into the dark here), you might indeed be quite susceptible for NLP manipulations: NLP was created to "reprogram" your thoughts and ways of thinking and people using it often come over as seemingly knowledgable and intellectually in control. Maybe this impressed you?
M.T.
From experience this makes sense but my reading into the Cognitive Science subsections is limited at the time. Does it follow that this impressionable state - in other words you're impressed by those who come over as seemingly knowledgeable & intellectually in control - trigger acquired emulation in thought processes?