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A Disturbance in the Force
RyanAM said:I want to apologize, I've gained much knowledge from your work and find much of it to be valid. I wanted to delete that post after i wrote and read again the post before it. This is why I appear to be as confused as i was. I would really enjoy hearing from the C's about our current global situation, i feel it isn't pretty.
I think it is often the case that after years of interacting in this world led by psychopaths, that we learn to react in certain ways to certain things. Because this is so deeply ingrained, we project our own learned reactions onto other people - in other words, "if I answered that in that way, I'd be pissed, and she/he should be pissed because that guy was a jerk!"
So, that is how we read responses/threads - through the lens of our own experiences and understandings.
It can be an shocking adjustment to learn that not everyone else reacts the way we do - even when they've also been kicked in the teeth by this psychopathic world. With time - Work - and practice, we can learn that not all words spoken strongly are words spoken in anger. Not all points made well, and finally, are points made with the heat of 'being worked up' behind them.
When we learn this, all communication here takes on a different flavor because we learn to subtly discern the energy behind the words, not just the words themselves - and we no longer read them as if WE wrote them.
That's just my current understanding, which might change with time.