You just won't be able to cope with it because you'll keep asking, "Why? What did I do wrong?! What is wrong with them? How can I fix them??" They can't be fixed. They don't want to be fixed. They are an interspecies predator. And that's the only way you can deal with it. If you don't do that, your feelings will always be... How can your feelings be hurt if a machine calls you a name? See? As long as you think that is not a machine, it's a human that could... Maybe they were just abused as children, misunderstood, or whatever... You can't cope with it.