Also watch this video (thank I linked in my first post here) which simplifies the point I'm trying to make, the main point at the end of the video : "and that's why feminine energy can't be in the charge of masculine, or the battery (of society) dies". And then hard times follow (created by the weakened/drained/de-empowered men).
I took the time to watch this video. There are bits I like and there are bits I don't quite like.
In general, yes, the world has changed and women now do have a highly prominent place in the social economic ladder. In fact, younger women are outperforming younger guys economically speaking on average - I can see this with my younger sister, she's in her mid twenties and earning 3-4 times what I used to earn at that age. It's just a different reality now for young females who want to get ahead in life and aren't relying on handouts.
What I don't agree with is that "effort" from men counts for nothing and somehow our effort is subsidising women. I'll speak from the perspective of the UK, at least here, tax isn't gender specific (but happy to be corrected). I'm finding it hard to see exactly where my effort is subsidizing women, but the effort of an equivalent woman is not doing exactly the same?
Personally, I think in the modern world, people expect too much too soon. People in their 20s, men or women, are expecting to be financially secure from their first job, and if it doesn't happen, then the system is broken somehow. Building experience and know-how, building grit and resilience, building intelligence forged from hardship and challenge, these are completely alien concepts.
I do think that women in general, at least to a higher degree can be more laser focused on economics, and so deploy themselves more effectively at getting the best grades and landing the best job situation than guys who on average may adopt a go-lucky attitude. I'm not saying guys are not ambitious or laser focused but in my experience, even from school, the ladies who had their eye on the prize were formidable in their focus.
A lot of videos I watch in this space tend to imply women are somehow less capable but in my world and work environment I just don't see it. Instead what I see, is that, on average, the more opportunities someone with the right mindset gets, including guidance and mentorship, that person will on average gain more tools and know-how to outperform others. It doesn't matter if the person is a woman or a man - I'm not talking about physical jobs, being a soldier, football player etc.. just jobs that require some use of the mind, not necessarily the physical body.
Women, especially the good ones, do have something on average that men don't, and that is emotional intelligence. I have found that in high stress volatile environments at least in my little universe, some of these hyper successful and super talented women are just better at reading the room and skillfully helping everyone navigate the whole situation.
I think what a lot of guys ultimately fail on is simply believing that men are better than women, and the only reason women can be outperforming guys is because of handouts or the guys being put down.
The only other thing I wanted to say, is that, I do think time is gentler on guys, in that, as long as you don't work yourself to an early grave in your 20s (drugs, alcohol, partying, video games etc), really, your body and mind should be coming to full strength in your middle ages.
So whilst on average guys will fall behind to females in young adulthood, they should be making up that ground later on once they let-go of their "go lucky" attitudes and actually realise the depths of what they can endure without breaking. There are levels of strength and endurance that I believe men can access psychologically that I don't think on average women can - in the long-term, if a guy doesn't put himself out of the playing field i.e. rage quits early on in life because #unfair, he should see that down the stretch he gets stronger whilst the ladies around him aren't able to draw from the same pool of strength and endurance - on average of course. Basically, the older a guy gets, the more he's likely to find he gets his sh*t together, assuming he didn't rage quit earlier.