Christine said:
I lived also a moment of melancholy these times, which had not arrived to me since long time, the tears ran me without really knowing why, the morning with the alarm clock I started to cry, I tried to understand, after having read the session and all the comments that I started to meditate to discover at which time I had a weakness It is when I told my experiment of my cure and that the only person who put a comment made me doubt faith that I had, its error on the wounded member and that nobody of other had raised this one, I’indifference on behalf of the group, it was like-here I felt were a person of no importance, worthless and ridiculous, I did not think that went me wounded deeply and disconnected me, I regretted having told my experiments and I had decided not to put a comment until today more.
PS: I hope not to make myself ridiculous once again.
Well that sounds very much like negative emotions / thoughts taking hold and fueling imagination, but even so, it's not ridiculous. I think lots of people here will have felt that at least a time or two. In those moments though, the important thing is to think about what is
actually there, the observable facts, rather than allowing imagination to fill in the gaps for us, and in doing so create the kind of negative thoughts as above – based on
no data.
If we consider it, the explanation for a lack of reply can be very straight forward indeed, very simple. Maybe its just that not many people read it? It was on the French part of the forum after all, so fewer members would have visited that page. Of those few, fewer still would be able to offer much by way of advice on fractures, osteoporosis, etc. Most likely that's all it was, but it seems perhaps you had already made more of it in your mind than was actually there, were maybe looking for some kind of confirmation?
So it can sometimes be that nobody seen a certain post, people around here can be very busy! Or if they do, that nobody has anything to add. There can be all sorts of reasons why it happens. We can be sure though, that if something really needs our attention, then someone will have something to add then.
It's better to post and find out where we have our reading errors, than to not post at all I think. Courage! :)
The important and useful thing is in learning how to better see these things working in us, to be able to recognise them a bit better the next time and so make better choices. Networking can be a great help to that end.
