AmyB AKA Se'et, just to clarify the intent of Anart's quote of Mme. De Salzmann's essay - which gets handed to every QFS member a time or two or more - YOU CANNOT SEE THE WAY YOU SEE WITH THE WAY YOU SEE. Another way: YOU CANNOT ANALYZE THE WAY YOU THINK WITH THE WAY YOU THINK. (Assuming you even think that the way you think or see needs analyzing, which you don't, which is the crux of the matter.)