Yes, I agree with you and nothing of this is supposed to be easy, that much we all know.
Still, many (or most) are not all. Moreover, while we agree that it's not a pre-requisite, we also agree that it can be beneficial. So, if our circumstances would allow it, not because we may want to run away from any troubles or responsibilities but because the decisions and actions we've taken so far have allowed us to remain actually flexible and largely free from any common burdens, then shouldn't we at least consider it?
Those on the STO path are all here to learn and grow, and in turn also help others to do the same. Now, being of course mindful of not trying to rush things too much or hinder our progress by glaring expectations or anticipation, the C's have also let us know that the current period offers great opportunity for accelerated learning. From past experience, I've also learned that the best way to move forward and make great progress in any area is to look for those who are already farther than you are, find ways to connect with them and then learn with/from them (like we do in this forum). However, to be able to actually learn and grow in an accelerated manner, we have to be prepared and willing to exert a great effort, be ready to make sacrifices, and also make our intentions known, if just by putting our thoughts out there and then keeping a discerning eye out for what the universe may send back. Otherwise, how can we expect to be offered or come across any such opportunities?
I mean, the C's have also stated that one of the purposes of this group (if not the main purpose), as well as of those on the STO path in general, is to help seed a new reality which is vastly different than the one we currently find ourselves in, however, how can we do this if we ourselves are still too afraid, worried, sceptical (or feel uncapable) of making the kind of changes that could significantly change our own?
Those are just some thoughts and questions I struggle with myself though and are not directed at anyone in particular. Judge not lest ye be judged and all.