True networking

[Alejo]

Thank you for this reminder @Alejo . This is also something I intend to work out esp when sometimes I can get excited and impulsive when convos/thread seems very interesting that I just itch to butt in a profound insight I have.

I think that's ok, if it is sincere, and you are sincere in sharing your insights, then I think it's ok to jump into a conversation where you're welcomed to share. If your insight is off the mark, then someone else will jump in to point it out and both grow. If it's not, then it might help someone else realize something they haven't.. as I said above, there's no way to know, but what we do know for sure, is that if there's no participation, then the insight won't be shared.

 

[Saki]

Thanks to all who have contributed to this thread. The discussion has motivated me to ignore my STS ego (concern about appearances, trying to impress, "how'm I doing") and start posting more -- without the interaction thinking. I know that by expressing myself I am opening up to the possibility of being advised or amended or looking dumb. But being advised or amended is one of the reasons I'm here -- "it's the lessons stupid!" It's a wonderful opportunity for growth, psychologically and spiritually, if I have the right attitude.

And there is nothing wrong with appearing "dumb." I've done that ........ quite a bit, actually. And, as Alejo says below, something in a post might strike a chord with someone else and we both benefit. WOW. The possibilities are endless.

I think it's very broad a question, How can we know if our input helps? the answer is, we don't know. But if you flip it, the same is true, how do we know our input doesn't help anyone? The answer is the same, we don't know. At which point I believe what we do, specially when giving input to someone else, or feedback, is to be as sincere as possible in our intent.

And that requires some work, and honesty. Maybe we're giving input because WE want to see that person be well, for self serving reasons, but even if that is true, it doesn't mean it won't help that person, and ourselves as we learn about us and our inclinations. In that case, I think what matters is not only intent, but how sincere and honest we are with ourselves about our intentions and their origin.

 

[Alejo]

And there is nothing wrong with appearing "dumb." I've done that ........ quite a bit, actually. And, as Alejo says below, something in a post might strike a chord with someone else and we both benefit. WOW. The possibilities are endless.

Raising my hand here, but appearing "dumb" is just an opportunity to learn something.. so as you said, it's a win win.. see you around the forum!

 

[Nienna]

Thanks to all who have contributed to this thread. The discussion has motivated me to ignore my STS ego (concern about appearances, trying to impress, "how'm I doing") and start posting more -- without the interaction thinking. I know that by expressing myself I am opening up to the possibility of being advised or amended or looking dumb. But being advised or amended is one of the reasons I'm here -- "it's the lessons stupid!" It's a wonderful opportunity for growth, psychologically and spiritually, if I have the right attitude.

And there is nothing wrong with appearing "dumb." I've done that ........ quite a bit, actually. And, as Alejo says below, something in a post might strike a chord with someone else and we both benefit. WOW. The possibilities are endless.

I don't think anyone here would think you dumb, Saki. Especially if what you post is done sincerely.

I think that, maybe, you could be seen as ignorant on a subject being discussed as we all our ignorant about many things, but that just means that you need a bit of knowledge about the subject, which many here are willing to give so that you can learn. And, that's, as you said, why we are all here. None of us knows everything about everything. Or even something about some things. The only way to find out if what we have seen or heard is correct is by posting about it.

I'm very glad that you have decided to start posting more.

 

[Jones]

But being advised or amended is one of the reasons I'm here -- "it's the lessons stupid sweetheart!"

 

[Saki]

Jones, thank you for the "amendment." It is appreciated.

 

[Saki]

I thought to mention if the "quotes" are revealing my age.

 

[Princess Lux 🌷]

And there is nothing wrong with appearing "dumb." I've done that ........ quite a bit, actually. And, as Alejo says below, something in a post might strike a chord with someone else and we both benefit. WOW. The possibilities are endless.

I also started with this thinking and I realize that it is just my own perception but not of the people here. Thinking logically is challenging to me before and through networking they helped me ground myself. Eventhough I still dont know and understand sometimes what they meant, overtime as I reread the threads, I am able to digest and figure out the things they meant.

 

[nidO]

I reviewed and remind myself again of networking and I now have questions. Since we all are learning here and helping each one, with all our unique way of processing things and learning, how can we know if our input helps? and to what extent will you tell or help a person such that he will also not miss out anything on his lessons?

Coming from I person that is also having trouble figuring out how to interact and network with this forum, your topic and the subsequent posts from other members help a LOT! In particular the "how to get started guides".

(These forums are filled to the brim with knowledgable members! Hard to keep up, but I'm trying.)

 

[Joe]

Here's what is written in Casswiki:

2. The group rises to the sum total of the understandings and capacities of all members.

This, in a nutshell, is networking as we define and understand it.

 

[Princess Lux 🌷]

Hello @Joe !

How would you know that you are part of THE GROUP? Is being a part of the forum makes you a part of the group or FOTCM?

I went back to this thread again for I havent been actively involved through posting and only reading. Lately, I thought if Im also networking when Im doing life and learning lessons but not posting or whatsoever. Or am I just worried or feeling like a FOMO?

 

[Joe]

I went back to this thread again for I havent been actively involved through posting and only reading. Lately, I thought if Im also networking when Im doing life and learning lessons but not posting or whatsoever. Or am I just worried or feeling like a FOMO?

I think you're just worried and perhaps overthinking things. Networking is just interacting and sharing here on the forum.

 

[Jimmy Ssaz]

I think you're just worried and perhaps overthinking things. Networking is just interacting and sharing here on the forum.

I am sure that this is a predestined project and no matter if they close the internet or for all the circumstances that develop in c/u including losing our way I still believe that all of us here will see our faces for the destiny of being aligned to move to 4d in SAD mode.

 

[Ina]

I am sure that this is a predestined project and no matter if they close the internet or for all the circumstances that develop in c/u including losing our way I still believe that all of us here will see our faces for the destiny of being aligned to move to 4d in SAD mode.

If they close the internet, all one needs is to continue the 'education' started here.

 

[Jimmy Ssaz]

If they close the internet, all one needs is to continue the 'education' started here.

What does it mean? You mean the knowledge that have given and have been discussed in the sessions and the forum..yes but I meant the "thought" because even to many of you who are in the sessions and are active members governed with the statute of paleochristianity implies separation 1 of the network then physical but that is not an impediment.