After undergoing a "face reconstruction surgery," I bet Chris Rock's opening statement at his next show will be:Meanwhile, the sale of tickets for Chris Rock's show skyrockets:
I also think it's a valid concern that it has grabbed the media and public's attention to the degree it has, but for me that's because I love stand up. I love laughing at messed-up comedy. I cut my teeth on Robin Williams in the 80s (which was a little risque for a pre-teen) and later Bill Hicks. There are many examples out there already of entitled people at comedy shows interrupting or arguing with comics, and even videos of patrons attacking and beating comics (as happened to Jimmy Dore once). Words are not violence. The laws of the US still reflect that fact.That's fine and it fits with the question, I just think that the other thing might not contribute much anymore and what was said about that is not that it's bad and it wasn't of value, all I'm saying is to return to the main question or this looks like it will go on for another 5 pages more of the same of that Will is useless and that it is rumored that Jada cheated on him even with Chris Rock and that is why so much friction.
I assume for the moment that it is real because of the postures as mentioned, but with perhaps certain inclinations to dramatize it to monopolize the screen... although I do not fully believe the latter and the whole thing was more dysfunctional.
Rock's immediate reaction to being slapped in the face "oh wow" and a laugh is totally unrealistic, no shock from supposedly being unexpectedly smacked in the face, not even a second.
Smith's slap, including his arm movement, is very unrealistic too, the way he comes up from below and across and extends his arm with open palm to his left, is very exaggerated and appears to be for effect.
I also think I've isolated the "sound" of the slap to a little before Smith actually hits Rock.
That sound also, to me, isn't consistent with the sharp 'smack' sound of a palm hitting flesh. Instead, it's a muffled 'thud'.
Notice even in that video, with a soft slap to the face, there was the expected sharp 'crack' sound.
Dr. Jerome Adams
Guest columnist
What happened with Will Smith and Chris Rock makes me cringe
Like most people who watched the Oscars on Sunday night, I’m still processing my feelings on 'the slap' that occurred between Will Smith and Chris Rock. And as has become the norm lately – from discussions on COVID-19, to Congress to Colin Kaepernick – most people have fallen into camps and viewed this situation as all or none.
You’re Team Rock and Will Smith needs to be arrested. Or you’re team Will and Chris Rock should be canceled. But most of life isn’t binary, and there are important lessons we can take from a constructive appraisal and criticism of both men’s actions.
As a Black man, it deeply upsets me to see Black men go after one another for any reason. I have been on the receiving end of criticism from other famous Black men, including a king of comedy. Though such tiffs may scratch a temporary itch, no one comes ends up looking the better for it.
Worse yet, it only furthers harmful stereotypes that others have about Black men not being able to get along or control their emotions.
Life can be stressful – these past two years particularly so – and many people are at their breaking points. We see the stress playing out in harmful ways, with record rates of suicide attempts, opioid overdoses, and verbal and physical attacks.
We must promote better awareness of and attention to personal mental health, and normalize that it’s OK not to be OK. That’s why I’m working with the Pro Football Hall of Fame to show that even big, strong, famous athletes can learn how to recognize triggers, build support systems and reach out for help when needed.
It seems Smith might have had some brewing frustrations and wasn’t in the best state of mind to respond to a trigger. He could have benefited from a moment of reflection or meditation and might have responded differently. Hopefully, this can be an example for young people moving forward on what not to do, and we can promote mental wellness, and discuss healthier ways to resolve conflict.
As a doctor, one of the most troubling aspects of the affair was Chris Rock’s joke that seemed to bully Jada Pinkett Smith over her alopecia.
The Oscars are always about edgy jokes, but the jokes are usually about people’s questionable decisions and not their unavoidable medical issues. One of the rules of comedy is to punch up and not down. Few people will feel sorry for rich and famous Jada Pinkett and Will Smith, but people with medical issues – from asthma, to alopecia to addiction – are bullied every day.
Attacking someone with a chronic medical issue is always punching down. I hope that he reflects on this, and that in the future Rock will become an advocate for those harmed by stigma.
The Oscars certainly achieved its goal: People are talking about it. Unfortunately, it’s for all the wrong reasons. I’m calling on Will and Chris to take this negative attention and turn it into a positive for mental health and productive conflict resolution, and support of people with medical conditions.
We can still make this an Oscars to remember, for the right reasons.
Meanwhile, the sale of tickets for Chris Rock's show skyrockets:
Rock's immediate reaction to being slapped in the face "oh wow" and a laugh is totally unrealistic, no shock from supposedly being unexpectedly smacked in the face, not even a second. Smith's slap, including his arm movement, is very unrealistic too, the way he comes up from below and across and extends his arm with open palm to his left, is very exaggerated and appears to be for effect.
Interesting point of view...I was thinking in same direction regarding Jada and Will past experience in their partnership.
I don't agree. Aside from the sting, the worst thing about a slap is the humiliation. While I'm sure some people would rub their cheek after being slapped, I don't know how common it is. Aside from movies or TV, in my experience most people let it burn and continue on - either in expectation of further attacks, or to maintain some dignity. Some examples:And then after the "slap", Rock doesn't even rub his cheek and/or jaw Which for me is unnatural not to do.
Chris Rock reminded me of a child being smacked: he was just grinning and bearing it and trying to find his bearing again. It's very possible that I could be reading too much into this, but I was wondering whether Chris Rock honed this kind of defence mechanism to perfection.I don't agree. Aside from the sting, the worst thing about a slap is the humiliation. While I'm sure some people would rub their cheek after being slapped, I don't know how common it is. Aside from movies or TV, in my experience most people let it burn and continue on - either in expectation of further attacks, or to maintain some dignity.