Thebull said:In practicing EE (the full program)I find I can be up and down the next day like lilyalic. Although while now limiting my beatha practice to once a week my dreams have calmed down. Recently with my return to work (nearly 2 months) I have been having a really tough time emotionally. i have found the daily work routine after my 11 month break extremely intense.
After been here in my current role for 6 years returning has brought up many old programs which I thought had played out. I did realize it would be difficult to return but it really is suffocating and the atmosphere is quite negative. For the good of my health I think it is time for me to make a decision if my future lies there as I feel I'm on the verge of my own health suffering.
I suppose the EE could be bringing up these old emotions and it may be a moment for me to face up to the fact the sales role is not the right one. I can say honestly I don't always feel comfortable with change and knowing I've still got to meet my financial obligations probably notches up the fear level.
I also had a surreal experience last night after I'd done the pipe breathing and POS. I was semi asleep in bed before my wife joined me. If she touched me or nudged me while she was falling asleep it seemed to trigger a vision or dream like sequence in my head. I was quite lucid and while it happened I did not feel any emotion or attachment to the dream or vision. I think it went on for a few hours before I awoke and then fell back to sleep. My feeling was that it was an actual real event that was playing out in my mind that was going to happen. I could not remember details though I seemed to during the process.
I think I needed to post to let things off my chest and try and make sense of my feelings so thanks for listening.
Hi TheBull, thank you for sharing. It sounds good, that just resorting to doing Beatha once a week helped your dreams quieting down.
It sounds however quite rough what you are going through at the moment emotionally, especially regarding your job. I think, it often happens, that when you are in a specific situation like a certain job for a long time, certain issues may escape your attention if the situation has become routine. But if you step out of the situation for a while and then come back, you may see many things with new eyes and catch issues, aspects, etc. you haven't noticed before. And this can offer new ways to go. Maybe this is the case with your job now...
Regarding your uneasiness regarding change, I can very much relate to that. I know this all too well. I think, the fear connected to it may be due to the unknown, that lies behind a decision for something new. Or it is, because one may think to be overwhelmed by the new demands which are involved in change. However it is, maybe a change is just what you need for your learning and growth? Because, so I think, the universe doesn't give you more lessons (including changes) than you can actually handle.
Just my take on that.
If you feel like networking more about the decision you seem to face, and what it entails, you are invited to do so in the Swamp Area in the Work Section of the forum, because it is a safe place for that.
In any case, take care and we are there for you
Edit: typo and grammar; paragraphing