herondancer said:As the POTS started, I was really concerned about trying to feel the words as others have mentioned. This was doubly on my mind as I had just read something kenlee posted on the formatory part of the centres. So here I go trying to feel the prayer, and suddenly I remembered a time when I had been admonished, "Stop thinking mechanically!" I started to cry because the answer came "I don't know how!" (even remembering it now, I'm tearing up). Then the crying got stronger and stronger and my whole body was just shaking and vibrating in waves that seemed to originate from the solar plexus. To see it, it probably looked almost orgasmic, but there wasn't a whiff of sexuality about it. Just a kind of visceral despair that I will never be able to transcend the limits of my thinking patterns.
I am wondering if you are "trying" too hard for a specific outcome? Also, as we are finding out, there are a lot of pent up thoughts, emotions and physical conditions coming up that we have blocked and are now coming to the surface. This may be what is happening to you.
You say that you have had a lot of upheaval in your life and that you have had to have a lot of self control for the last two months. That, to me, is a long time to be keeping things in a controlled way. Maybe this is the way that the EE is letting your body finally relax, along with the cleansing of some of your controlled emotions?
I would say that this is just going to be a normal reaction to the EE. As you say you felt more relaxed this morning. That, in itself, seems to me to be a good thing.
Bobo08 said:What I'd like to ask is whether anyone experience the increased zoning out, and whether it is a good thing or not. As far as I can see, there's no negative effect and I feel more peaceful and able to cope better during the day. But I just want to be sure. I also miss hearing the POTS. Thanks.
I have to agree with Redfox, that if you are tired when you do this that it is more likely that you will be zoning out more frequently.
But I would also like to say that last night when I did the EE that I was not as tired as usual and as the POTS came on I was ready for it. I was awake and ready to focus on it. I was doing great through the first prayer and then all of a sudden, right in the middle of it, I was gone. I awoke while the final music was playing. I started it again, and the exact same thing happened. So I went to sleep.
I also have been having dreams of snakes recently. Something I haven't really done since I was a small child. (Well, there was one time when in my 30s where I dreamed a snake was right outside our bedroom door and it came in and was on the bed, and then I found out when I woke up that my ex's ball python had gotten out of its cage and was outside of the bedroom door when he got up. )
So I can't help but think that these are signs that things are really being cleansed from pent up emotions and whatever else that have been kept buried for some time.
I think that these things are normal and yet different for each person and we should suspect that things like these are going to happen as long as we keep doing the EE. For how long, I have not a clue.
I also want to say that I agree with what others have said and that doing the full EE program should only be done on Mondays and Thursdays as was recommended by the Cs.
fwiw