I think it makes sense care about who does these things, ie. the facts of the matter. As far as I can tell, the IDF killed the majority of civilians (including Israelis) during the Oct. 7 raid, by Apache helicopter fire, tank shells, and cross fire in the kibbutz. This all falls under the IDF's Hannibal Directive, which states that it is justifiable loss to kill Israelis in order to prevent them from being taken hostage.
Then they put their
ZAKA atrocity-porn psyop into action, making up outrageous claims about Hamas butchery in order to drum up international support for their slaughter of civilians. Meanwhile, as Hamas has released hostages, who all seem pretty happy and well fed in the videos - and who have been ordered into silence by the IDF.
There may be some psychos in the Hamas ranks, but I haven't seen any evidence of outright Hamas butchery as the IDF claims.
With regards to the rightness of Hamas' actual actions as documented by the evidence - killing the IDF soldiers and taking hostages in defence of their territory, I think it's perfectly justifiable to resist ethnic cleansing of one's own people and the wholesale slaughter of civilians.
I've noticed a sort of pacifism program that some people were also dealing with when Putin initiated the SMO. We like him and think he's a good guy - how could he be involved in killing? Surely killing can't be good. It's the same question that's asked of Caesar. He was arguably the greatest soul in recent memory, and yet he was responsible for deaths of hundreds of thousands and hostage-taking to ensure compliance. How can that be good in any way?
Gurdjieff talked about the Law of Three, that there is the good and the bad in any situation, and the only way to accurately judge the good and bad requires understanding the specific context in which the action takes place.
One way that I understand Hamas' actions is that they are wielding what the Japanese military strategist Yagyu Munenori called 'the life-giving sword' as written in his book
Heiho kadensho. The life-giving sword is a weapon kills in the service of something higher, be it peace, order, truth, or Life itself. Killing in the name of life may seem a contradiction to our normal everyday linear thinking, but not to someone who's facing a bloodthirsty horde like the Azov battalion or the IDF.
In short, the life-giving sword destroys evil.