Good article, and...
By: griffin
If the proper requests for legal information needed to prosecute 'Jean' and assist 'Marie' to protect herself and her children aren't forthcoming I'd suggest taking another tack going around the corrupted officialdom.
Of course I can't suggest that Laura, Ark or 'Marie' take any particular actions that might involve people who, shall we say, aren't recognized as totallly upright and leading members of their metropolitan societies, I can I believe, relate my own experience. Make of it whatever you will.
I have married twice, and my first wife already had a daughter from a prior marriage. It didn't work out, but oh well. However, after I had married again, my first wife mentioned that her first husband wasn't paying his child support for her first daughter. (Got all that straight?)
Well, I paid my child support for her second daughter without fail, so I was a bit concerned to hear this. I did not have any idea what to do.
However, my second wife came up with something (bless her heart) that worked. She had a half-sister in Palm Springs who had dated a wise guy club manager there for a while, so she was. er. 'connected'.
She told her half-sister about the problem and asked if a discreet bit of influence - a nudge as it were - might be applied to encourage the proper behavior. She also said not to bother if it might incur any debt.
(This is the woman, my second wife, who called off the Mafia hit on her fourth husband, arranged by one of her crazy half-brothers - his pickup truck went *BOOM* at 6am one morning, before he got in it. That was the best they could do at that point. A scary lady, my wife, but, to her credit she called it off, screaming at 'em, DON"T DO IT!)
The answer came back. The people contacted were great believers in family, and a man's responsibility to provide for his own children. I had the same attitude. There would be no debt incurred for the favor.
The, uh, 'man' involved was a Scientologist who ran a service shop in Hollywood, Los Angeles, CA. Of course we never heard anything about what manner of influence might have been brought to bear in order to resolve the problem, but we did later hear from my first wife that he not only resumed paying child support but also all his arrears.
My first wife's first daughter is a physicist, Phd in quantum physics from Dartmouth, in her mid-thirties now with two children and doing astrophysics, last I heard. Whatever the Mafia guys said, it worked.
There are many levels of society, and they aren't opposed in all the dimensions - especially the moral one, which is rather universal - so don't shrink from connections with whomever, whenever survival is at stake. I live in a neighborhood full of religious Ukrainians, but I do like the ending of "The Italian Job". Hah! Enjoy vanquishing the bad!