Lilou said:
I talked to the lady about Dr. Terry Wahls -her video from TedX was on SOTT recently. Dr. Wahls, who herself has MS, took herself out of a wheelchair and back to her practice with diet. If it were me, I'd want the information. But there's really no way to even guess the reason for the bogus email. Some people are open to information, others are not.
I really need to organize/print some information for patients so I can just give it to them right there. Maybe she just doesn't give out her email addy, even to her eye doctor!
It's easy as a doctor to believe that a patient needs to heed the advice given - as that is what doctors think the patient consults him or her for. The reason might be a different one ... I am not saying that patients don't want to get better, I think everyone does, but I think that the way to better health for some patients may be unsurmountable due to programs and beliefs. I think everyone wants to feel better, but some are not prepared to let go of certain programs/ beliefs to get there.
While I think it is good for doctors to hand out/ mention what they beleive is beneficial for the patient, he or she needs to respect the choices of the patients - which can be very difficult (extreme example a Jehova witness refusing blood and dying of blood loss on an operating table - very hard for the theatre staff involved).
I think for me the idea is to plant a seed - once the seed has taken foot in fertile soil, it will grow by itself. If it lands in barren earth it will wither away no matter the care you give ... If she was interested in the information, she would be able from the snippet that she got from you to go onto the internet and see that there is a lot of information about MS and diet. If the task was too daunting and overwhelming, she would come back to you and ask.
If she doesn't, well then she is not open for this ...
I know that most doctors have this very strong program to help, to persuade the patient to do what he tells them, because it's for their best. And most often than not this is not true ... most doctors are completely unaware of their blatant lack of the most basic knowledge regarding the human body, but in medical school they have been inculcated to be the bearer of the ultimate wisdom.
I have a relative with MS and three small kids not doing very well. I once mentioned diet and vitamin D as something beneficial for MS sufferers. He just said that he was looked after very well by his doctors ... And that was it. For me it is heartwrentching to watch him struggle with the knowledge, that it is unnecessary. But it is his body, his life, his choice.
So give advice to whom asks ... and this is bloody difficult!