Reading your experiences
and everyone else in this thread, who speaks personally about what is unfolding among those we care, are connected with, those we love...
makes my heart really, really heavy...
I feel deeply when i read each ones entry... It also makes me feel divided, I must confess (because I put myself into the situation, wondering how I would feel/act/think/do right or do wrong?)
On one hand you want to aid your beloved ones. On the other hand you don't wish to interfere with their free will, possibly acting in STS. But where goes the line ? And what is true interference ? What is honest aid ? I assume sheer manipulation would fit into the STS category, wrapped under "in the best interest" label or total ignorance - and that would be an real overstep...
But not everything is - or is it ?!
I believe it is important to scrutinize ones (possible interference) with too much guilt, in the steps one takes with family, friends and beloved ones, while wanting to talk / inform / confront them - or backing off. And if one has done an overstep - well the good aspect in it would be, to realize and understand it - and not ending up into secretly cultivating fear and guilt about it. I don't know how to put it in words. I mean, to watch out for, a secret fear, because one wants to really, truly obey free will. That that, could at times become an issue in itself?
I personally noticed that if i force myself too much in restricting myself, because i wish to do good, "what would be best by heart", STO - then I have observed the opposite; It sort of get's wrong (very puzzling / confusing). Or the outcome develops into the opposite. Almost as if I, with that,
override my natural, intuitive ability to do the right things...
My head can sometimes be a bit too eager to be "good"... and it kind of get's wrong-ish ? I also notice that in a few occasions, a 'wrong' reaction or action, has been the prober way. (again, there is no rule in this - it
always depends, is always
connected to an unfolding situation)
I think of Tao: to keep in regard what needs to be done,
when it is needed, to have the right position/tools.
To trust in our natural, inherent ability to do the 'right thing' - even if you at the moment do not know how exactly that comes about ! Whether that means to talk, to be in ones face, or to step back, to say nothing, etc - it depends on your innermost trust and knowledge in you, connected to the actual situation unfolding.
You are right... I tend to forget one aspect: to let others learn their lesson. That is perhaps a keystone I am struggling with to understand in real practice - because something in me is ignorant, still. I have to consult Yoda
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Everything revolving those we love and care for, even those we get irritated over - it just ain't easy... especially with something so difficult (evil) dealing with statins and the genetic "vaccines"...
I really feel with you, guys !