Hi RedFox, the following may be helpful, or not.
Does any of this ring any bells for you
and,Louise Hay in You Can Heal Your Life said:Pain – Guilt. Guilt always seeks punishment.
Right side of body – Giving out, letting go, masculine energy, men, the father.
Shoulders – Represent our ability to carry out experiences in life joyously. We make life a burden by our attitude.
Lise Bourbeau in Your body’s telling you: Love yourself! said:SHOULDER PROBLEMS
EMOTIONAL BLOCK
Shoulder pain signifies a feeling of being emotionally burdened. You have “the weight of the world on your shoulders.” You want to do too much for others, so prevent yourself from doing what you want because of that inner obligation to them. In focusing on keeping others happy, you fail to reach out and grasp your own happiness. You have tremendous capacity for working hard. Your body isn’t telling you to stop doing so much, but to do it out of love instead of obligation. If you have difficulty in moving your arms, you may be apprehensive about embracing a person or a new situation.
MENTAL BLOCK
Shoulder pain is a message that you are overburdening yourself for no real reason; you are taking on burdens that do not belong to you. Liberate yourself by allowing others to live their lives and make their own mistakes – they’ll learn something! Did you ever promise them that you would do all this for them? Or do you believe that it all falls on your shoulders automatically?
It is time to establish your limitations and personal needs and take on your shoulders only what corresponds to what you want for yourself. Take care of yourself as if it were someone you cared about. Understand that you alone put pressure on yourself; others will respect your needs when you learn to respect them yourself. Allow yourself to be flexible, embrace anyone or anything you want, and let go of your belief that the consequences will be harsh.
Does any of this ring any bells for you