piliangie said:
I agree with the C's that we dont need more personal questions.....sorry...fix your own problems, otherwise you are not learning, nothing ...and only shows that you are sts...more than sto..path.......
Well, first of all, I think it's easy to say "fix your own problems", but can you imagine how it is to be in their situations? You have serious struggles, lot of hard times, bizarre and strange situations (like explained in the Amazing Grace and Wave series), and wouldn't you ask a questions so that you have a better understanding of situation?
Second, Laura's injury. Can you imagine how it's like to have injured part/parts of your sacrum. It affects every action you take! Every day, every minute, every moment you're in pain. You can't stand, sit, work, walk, sleep normally, you are in pain all the time. Here is quote from another thread
http://cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php/topic,36090.45.html about that
Chu said:
Laura is doing her best to recover asap. She thanks you all for your best wishes and suggestions. Unfortunately, she can't apply all of them, because certain positions can give her vertigo, for example. She can only read standing up or laying down in a specific position, sideways. Whenever she tries to sit longer at her computer, that leads to her being in pain afterwards. She can walk a little without pain, and comes downstairs or we go visit her, but she still needs rest. It's hard for her to not be able to do as much as she usually does!
And wouldn't you ask for help in that situation? I certainly would. I wouldn't consider myself STS for that. This seems to me something very normal and I think everybody will do it. Imagine you have a friend who can help you with something, wouldn't you ask for help? But, in the last session, Laura didn't even ask for her health problems. She is getting better, but still, I think there is lot of pain and struggle.
So, what seems to me, the reason you judge them is simple you haven't been in their situation. If you were, you would understand them better. They did huge, huge job, helped lot of people, gave so much of their energy, love, time and everything to others. Asking questions only means you're a human being and live in a 3D and it is totally understandable and normal to me.