Nicely put, I hear you. I never thought of myself as a materialistic, but perhaps I've 'over estimated' myself. For long, I've been convinced that Darwin is nonsense, but that may be just the 'tip of the iceberg', I perhaps need to 'let go' even more.
Related to this, what about the aspect of "getting food on the table"? I mean, having faith in non-materialistic 'higher things' sounds great, but the kids still need food and shelther. I don't mean to be 'wiseacreing', I'm just curious how you guys see this balance: we live in a materialistic world int the sense, that we do need materialistic things (like food) to survive VS we shouldn't hold on to materialistic things and let them rule/ruin our lives?
I remember seeing a quote once that went like, “We are surrounded by lessons; when a lesson becomes painful, it is because we either ignored, or didn’t learn from the non painful ones...”
Similarly, there is the old adage, “When the student is ready, the teacher appears!”
I believe both these statements are commentaries on that aspect of “human” nature identified by Socrates, that gave rise to Socratic method and the ultimate nature of this world.
Where I am going is that if this is all a learning exercise, then for the lessons to “stick”, they must have deep and profound meaning to us.
It is not enough to intellectually acknowledge something. To truly
learn, a lesson must be profound enough to alter/grow/transform our soul.
For that to happen, there must be a profound attachment to an identity or situation or else the lesson has no “bite”.
So, to attempt to answer that last question, if we abdicated all responsibilities and trusted that the universe would provide, we would very quickly learn a very profound lesson about the universe and how much it cares about us and our plight.
Similarly, once we take ownership of our situation and do our best to navigate the choppy waters, we encounter another set of profound lessons...
But we have to care! We have to be invested, or else the lessons have no meaning or ability to cause growth/transformation.
If we are so detached that we are merely dispassionate observers, then our souls lose any further ability in this existence to learn anything more!