Hi Fluffy, I was thinking about this a little. I agree with Alejo that some things are time-sensitive and it's best you try discussing some things with your husband sooner. I can understand wanting to talk things out to process them, but that not everyone wants to listen to me blab for ages, especially if I get angry/sad while talking. Maybe you can try writing out your concerns to him? Like, you can write a big journal entry to yourself if you need to process your concerns, then you can cut the paragraphs down into bullet points highlighting the main concerns you have. It could be a piece of paper for him with bullet points that look something like, "I'm concerned about X. What do you think about X and why? How can we work on X together?" Then you can let him write down what he thinks of your concerns. This medium could help you both get to the bottom of what needs to be addressed without emotional programs running amok in either of you.
It also takes out the guesswork for him and could be more considerate to him long-term. Maybe he's the type that isn't aware there's a problem until something goes wrong and he picks up on it? It's hard to say without more specific examples from your life. I'm just thinking of the stereotype in relationships of how women tend to overthink things and men tend to be more direct. For example, when a woman tries to give a man the silent treatment as punishment, and he thinks, "Ah, peace and quiet! Nothing's wrong today!" Not saying your relationship is like this, because I can't tell without knowing more, but if it's ringing some bells for you, then I think it's worth considering.
Have you been reading the romance novels? They're quite fun and can help you relax while potentially learning some very important lessons about simple karmic understandings along the way. Maybe they'll inspire you in other aspects of your life, too! A big lesson I've gotten from them is that people misunderstand each other because they think they know what the other person is thinking, when they really don't, and they could avoid most if not all of the problems in their relationships if they'd just talk to each other directly. And it usually takes a 3rd party to help them see these misunderstandings and the need to openly communicate with one another.
Just my 2 cents. You're getting great feedback from everyone, and I hope your appointment goes well!
P.S. If you are in a situation where you must wear a mask and can bring your own, I recommend black cheesecloth masks if your environment isn't humid. They're opaque, easily breathable and it's hard to tell they're cheesecloth unless you recognize the texture! I did it throughout California's lockdown and nobody said anything.
) and did several lab tests every week. Because of that, toxoplasmosis one came out positive but was false-positive (we did the same test in two other labs!). Doctors also wanted to do an obligatory cesarean section (because of my wife's age), but she insisted on natural childbirth, and this enabled her to recover very quickly. Good luck!
