I've been away for a few days with work and have had to socialise/been out of my comfort zone (or at least that's how it use to be when I went away with work).
The last few days have brought home that of self observation and using social interactions to bring up/highlight and actively change programs during interacting with others....more so the identifying and challenging of the beliefs on which they have there foundations built.
It has been an eye opener to say the least....and I am feeling extremely comfortable and at ease with myself, so much so my appearance (at least to me in the mirror) seem to have changed....weird.
I've also noticed that my memory/recall for things (both short and long term) has improved dramatically....so much so I can vividly recall things I never knew I remembered.
The resent posts in this thread have tied a lot of old things together for me it seems....some of which have left me feeling quite shocked
I didn't realise it until you said this Laura that I've actually seen this for some years...even before sott....and the more I thought about it (in relation to social interaction and my avoidance strategies of social interactions) the more it dawns on me that I've "seen the unseen" as long as I can remember....and I find this quite shocking (for some unknown reason).
It has brough back countless memories......
I remember staring in horror as a small child at certain people.......whats worse is it felt like whatever was behind the eyes noticed me notice it....and I would know it knew I'd noticed it (sorry for the tongue twister)....which would make it worse....
This has been my life, so to 'see these things' is just part of me....what I realise is that my programs and rational mind have tried there best to protect me from these things....by shutting it out.
More so I became convinced that what it was me that was the problem (especially as a teenager).....I would 'see' fear or disgust in others when they looked at me. I have very strong programs to do with Not making eye contact with others....it finally makes sense as to why I have them.
It seems to have been twisted into a almost overwhelming fear of what 'other would see in me' if I made eye contact.
I even went through a period where (just after my depression) others would see me on the street, and only when they made eye contact would there expression change...and I had a few people literally stop mid stride in fear 'at what they saw in me'.....which only reinforced the belief that I was worthless.
I think....but I could be wrong....that what it actually was, was a projection of the fear I felt at 'what I saw' when I was a child....
I'd really like someone to confirm if this seems to be the case.....digging up core/life time programs is a pretty scary thing.
This worried me greatly when I read that quote here a few years ago now....before sott/after my depression I realised (or so I thought at the time) that I didn't know how to interact socially, especially with women. I have a vague recall that 'The Celestine Prophesies' mentioned a sort of staring at someones eyes to 'see the real them behind them'....which included projecting your own energy on to them...so I tried an experiment once at the supermarket once on a girl standing in line at the till with me....and there was a connection and she sort of got transfixed with my gaze.
To not have a women react in fear to 'eye contact'....infact the opposite was a pretty big (ego?) boost to me. But a day or two later it dawned on me that it was manipulative/a violation some how.....which then reinforced my worthlessness again.
To read the above the first time...and even to some extent now sure does trigger off not only 'worthlessness'...but more so the 'I'm a psychopath' thoughts...urg
....which brings up some of the older memories of 'dreams' I use to have. I have had a few dreams of staring into 'aliens' eyes. The last I recall was a year or two ago when I first found sott (or maybe just before), of an alien staring into my eyes and 'pushing' into my head (energetically?).....part of me stopped it, while I realised that in doing so it had left itself open....so I pushed back.
The terror from this thing when it realised I was doing to it what it was trying to do to me....well the terror from it triggered my 'predators mind' for sure.
The dream ended a second or two later when it felt like my left achilles heal had been stabbed by something sharp and I was now bleeding to death....
I honestly have no idea if that's even relevent....dreams being totally subjective things....but to say I've had a few where I realised something was crawling about in my head, only to leave itself open to read its thoughts....has happened many times in my life.
One last thing that may or may not go with 'seeing the unseen' is seeing/knowing the intent of others.....it goes with the eye contact quite closely, but you don't even have to be able to see a parson to know there intent sometimes. The most obvious example I can give (and I pay attention to it daily, and have done for years) is driving down a motor way and knowing when someone wants to pull into your lane before they even indicate to do so.
Its not always there, but sometimes its extremely strong.
The other time I felt such a thing was (and I may have posted this before) around the same time in my life as the 'stopping someone at 100 meters' thing. I was walking through town and became aware (before I saw) that two lads had there intent 'fixed' on me even thought they didn't make eye contact. I was very surprised to have this happen in the middle of a packed town centre.
I felt like I was 'prey' to them...and putting two and two together I figured (as they where walked side by side towards me, so I would either have to stop or walk thought the middle of them) that they where going to pick pocket me...(if town had been empty I could well imagine they'd have stabbed me and not thought twice).
So I puffed myself up and made eye contact with both of them (with some pretty hostile thoughts in mind along the lines of "oh no you don't") and they stopped and stepped sideways as I walked through the middle of them.
Actually, thinking about it I recall doing similar things as a kid to avoid being bullied at school.....I 'knew' when it was coming even if I couldn't see them until I went round a corner.
Apologies for the long post....this has brought so many things to the surface for me......picking through what was/is me, what is projected and what is the predators mind (or something else) in all these interactions I recall is going to take me a long time.
The last few days have brought home that of self observation and using social interactions to bring up/highlight and actively change programs during interacting with others....more so the identifying and challenging of the beliefs on which they have there foundations built.
It has been an eye opener to say the least....and I am feeling extremely comfortable and at ease with myself, so much so my appearance (at least to me in the mirror) seem to have changed....weird.
I've also noticed that my memory/recall for things (both short and long term) has improved dramatically....so much so I can vividly recall things I never knew I remembered.
The resent posts in this thread have tied a lot of old things together for me it seems....some of which have left me feeling quite shocked
Laura said:So, some of you begin to "see the unseen". I bet you never thought that this was how it would be. You probably thought you'd start seeing ghosts or auras or some of the nonsense that gets propagated by the so-called esotericists and mumbo-jumbo artists.
What is interesting is when the so-called "rational mind," i.e. the intellect fueled by emotion, tries to talk you out of what you are seeing.
I didn't realise it until you said this Laura that I've actually seen this for some years...even before sott....and the more I thought about it (in relation to social interaction and my avoidance strategies of social interactions) the more it dawns on me that I've "seen the unseen" as long as I can remember....and I find this quite shocking (for some unknown reason).
It has brough back countless memories......
mada85 said:Something that really chills me is dead or soulless eyes. I often notice that when people are talking to me, their eyes are flat – there is no life in them, even though they may appear quite enthusiastic or animated in what they are saying. I may be enjoying what they are saying and their enthusiasm, and suddenly I notice that their eyes are dead. It is a shock and quite chilling to observe this and ponder the implications, to realise that I am having a conversation with a machine, and that all their thoughts, feelings, reactions, words and movements – in short, everything about the person – is mechanical.
I remember staring in horror as a small child at certain people.......whats worse is it felt like whatever was behind the eyes noticed me notice it....and I would know it knew I'd noticed it (sorry for the tongue twister)....which would make it worse....
This has been my life, so to 'see these things' is just part of me....what I realise is that my programs and rational mind have tried there best to protect me from these things....by shutting it out.
More so I became convinced that what it was me that was the problem (especially as a teenager).....I would 'see' fear or disgust in others when they looked at me. I have very strong programs to do with Not making eye contact with others....it finally makes sense as to why I have them.
It seems to have been twisted into a almost overwhelming fear of what 'other would see in me' if I made eye contact.
I even went through a period where (just after my depression) others would see me on the street, and only when they made eye contact would there expression change...and I had a few people literally stop mid stride in fear 'at what they saw in me'.....which only reinforced the belief that I was worthless.
I think....but I could be wrong....that what it actually was, was a projection of the fear I felt at 'what I saw' when I was a child....
I'd really like someone to confirm if this seems to be the case.....digging up core/life time programs is a pretty scary thing.
Psyche said:I remember being totally scared by a certain stare from a guy who had pathological fame and past history. It was a clear red flag. Reminds me of this:
http://www.cassiopaea.com/cassiopaea/psychopath.htm
In the book Violent Attachments, women and men have noted the particular stare of the psychopath - it is an intense, relentless gaze that seems to preclude his destruction of his victim or target. Women, in particular, have reported this stare, which is related to the "predatorial" (reptilian) gaze; it is as if the psychopath is directing all of his intensity toward you through his eyes, a sensation that one woman reported as a feeling of "being eaten." They tend to invade peoples' space either by their sudden intrusions or intimidating look-overs (which some women confuse for sexuality.)
Creepy but true!
This worried me greatly when I read that quote here a few years ago now....before sott/after my depression I realised (or so I thought at the time) that I didn't know how to interact socially, especially with women. I have a vague recall that 'The Celestine Prophesies' mentioned a sort of staring at someones eyes to 'see the real them behind them'....which included projecting your own energy on to them...so I tried an experiment once at the supermarket once on a girl standing in line at the till with me....and there was a connection and she sort of got transfixed with my gaze.
To not have a women react in fear to 'eye contact'....infact the opposite was a pretty big (ego?) boost to me. But a day or two later it dawned on me that it was manipulative/a violation some how.....which then reinforced my worthlessness again.
To read the above the first time...and even to some extent now sure does trigger off not only 'worthlessness'...but more so the 'I'm a psychopath' thoughts...urg
Brenda86 said:In it he describes this "staring in the eyes" by hybrids and greys that abductees are subjected to and by which they are body and mind controlled by it. I am thinking that intense staring in somebody's eyes (ala Art of Living) may just hypnotically open a window with all the implications of such, like leaving the window open for one thing.
I read something else very similar to this lately in an exert from Abduction: Human Encounters with Aliens by John E. Mack:
The eyes have a compelling power, and the adbuctees will often wish to avoid looking directly into them because of the overwhelming dread of their own sense of self, or loss of will, that occurs when they do so.
In any case, this discussion reminds me of the phrase that the eyes are the window to the soul... and I shall add "or lack thereof". And I had a similar experience today at the bookstore. A very tall, blonde-haired young man was in front of me. I was thinking he was a good looking guy until he turned around for a moment and looked me in the eyes. Just for a second maybe. And it really disturbed me. There was nothing about his facial expression that was unnerving, but something in/behind his eyes was very predatory and I did not like it.
....which brings up some of the older memories of 'dreams' I use to have. I have had a few dreams of staring into 'aliens' eyes. The last I recall was a year or two ago when I first found sott (or maybe just before), of an alien staring into my eyes and 'pushing' into my head (energetically?).....part of me stopped it, while I realised that in doing so it had left itself open....so I pushed back.
The terror from this thing when it realised I was doing to it what it was trying to do to me....well the terror from it triggered my 'predators mind' for sure.
The dream ended a second or two later when it felt like my left achilles heal had been stabbed by something sharp and I was now bleeding to death....
I honestly have no idea if that's even relevent....dreams being totally subjective things....but to say I've had a few where I realised something was crawling about in my head, only to leave itself open to read its thoughts....has happened many times in my life.
One last thing that may or may not go with 'seeing the unseen' is seeing/knowing the intent of others.....it goes with the eye contact quite closely, but you don't even have to be able to see a parson to know there intent sometimes. The most obvious example I can give (and I pay attention to it daily, and have done for years) is driving down a motor way and knowing when someone wants to pull into your lane before they even indicate to do so.
Its not always there, but sometimes its extremely strong.
The other time I felt such a thing was (and I may have posted this before) around the same time in my life as the 'stopping someone at 100 meters' thing. I was walking through town and became aware (before I saw) that two lads had there intent 'fixed' on me even thought they didn't make eye contact. I was very surprised to have this happen in the middle of a packed town centre.
I felt like I was 'prey' to them...and putting two and two together I figured (as they where walked side by side towards me, so I would either have to stop or walk thought the middle of them) that they where going to pick pocket me...(if town had been empty I could well imagine they'd have stabbed me and not thought twice).
So I puffed myself up and made eye contact with both of them (with some pretty hostile thoughts in mind along the lines of "oh no you don't") and they stopped and stepped sideways as I walked through the middle of them.
Actually, thinking about it I recall doing similar things as a kid to avoid being bullied at school.....I 'knew' when it was coming even if I couldn't see them until I went round a corner.
Apologies for the long post....this has brought so many things to the surface for me......picking through what was/is me, what is projected and what is the predators mind (or something else) in all these interactions I recall is going to take me a long time.