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...Manners (articles, books)6.3 - Judith Martin 7. Other Psychology Fear of the Abyss: Healing the Wounds of Shame & Perfectionism7.1 - Aleta Edwards The Caricature of Love7.2 - Hervey Cleckley Making Sense of People: Decoding the Mysteries of Personality7.3 - Samuel Barondes Dabrowski's Theory...

...here), Nora Gedgaudas, Dr. Segura, etc.; but also, psychology oriented individuals such as Martha Stout, Timothy d. Wilson, Aleta Edwards, etc. It seemed like each time I worked to improve one, I would always slingshot backward after a while, and after a long time of this it appears that a...

...work with other people on projects, like in a work setting. From the bit that I have read of and about the book, Fear of the Abyss by Aleta Edwards it seems like the book covers what are perfectionist traits well. Notice my ability to focus has been impacted so I'm going to give it more...

I hope it helps. :) I'd forgotten to put the link for the test in to make it a bit easier in case people don't have the book yet: _http://www.hsperson.com/pages/test.htm Yeah, those newsletters are pretty helpful. I was reading about PCS as well and wouldn't be surprised to find out that...

...not sure how many people will care to try & understand an HSP, especially in a work environment. I recognize several family members in that list, & I score higher than all of them. I wonder how many people have this & PCS as well? (perfection, control, shame - Dr Aleta Edwards Fear of the Abyss)

...of this stress/anxiety (I have been quite depressed, tearful and fatigued over several weeks) would reading Fear of the Abyss by Dr Aleta Edwards be beneficial, or could somebody recommend another book. I am improving my diet again, practicing EE more and am focusing on healthier...

Re: Help with creating (and proofreadind) transcripts of SOTT Talk Radio shows Hi Gandalf, I've just noticed, there appears to be 2 shows (#45 & #46) for Dr Anna Salter on the table above ^

Thanks Beetlemaniac, that speaks to me. That is me completely. It's funny, when someone delivers insight into one's own psyche - almost like saying "oh yes, this is you, have a look" - it has several effects: [list type=decimal] a sense of relief - possibly because there is a force that knows...

...yourself to be aligned with your true self and to release all those past hurts. I'd recommend also checking out Fear of the Abyss by Aleta Edwards. I feel that the 4th way practice is incomplete without an understanding the dynamics that occurred in our family lives -- I haven't read a lot...

...very difficult to do. I suspect that what I used to call "guilt" which is a major issue for me, is actually shame as it is defined by Aleta Edwards here. And I also suspect that the PCS type describes me pretty well. I think I'm very, very slow in catching up. I read the Narcissism books but...

Fear of the Abyss, by Aleta Edwards, is a really good book that deals with a cluster of traits relating to perfectionism, control, and shame (PCS for short). I see some of those traits manifesting in what you wrote above. Even if suffering only mild forms of that type of personality, I found the...

I watched that "ice man" video too (I had actually seen it a little while back, I remember the D.A. well) & his childhood story is pretty common. Since that was over thirty years ago, similar upbringing tales have just increased, the relentless beatings & religious "discipline", & especially the...

Thanks for the links and the show! :) Anna Salter reminded me somehow of Aleta Edwards, very driven and compassionate. I very much agree with Chu's statement: I wish there were more people like her (and Aleta Edwards) in this world. I hope she will benefit greatly from what Laura was telling...

SMM, I had many similar experience to what you have expressed in your post. My father left when I was 5 and shortly after that my brother was hit by a car in front of our house and died on the sofa. He left after my youngest sister was born, another similarity. I too tried to be good enough...

Re: How to stop hating my Narcissistic mother Strawman, this post of yours comes across as really quite abrasive. Aragorn's assessment is accurate, in my opinion. The whole post reads like an attack on lilyalic based on your own self-importance and belief in yourself as someone superior...

Re: How to stop hating my Narcissistic mother I agree with you Aragorn. My heart went out to lilyalic when I read that post.

Re: How to stop hating my Narcissistic mother Yeah in a way they are being fostered aren't they! Thank you for your input :) Thank you very much for the link to that broadcast! I've got webpage open on a separate tab, and will give it a listen when I've woken up a little more! (I have...

...for the abuser. @lilyac: I hope you've had the chance to listen to the SOTT radio episode with the author of "Fear of the Abyss" Dr. Aleta Edwards. Amongst other valuable things, she explains how important it is to set the boundaries with narcissistic parents, and she also gives some...

...book can turn out one of the most important ever read. For more information, you can also listen to the interview with the author, Aleta Edwards, in SOTT Talk Radio Show #38 (transcript and recording). (The forum thread for the show is here.) If you begin to recognize yourself in the...

...Manners (articles, books)6.3 - Judith Martin 7. Other Psychology Fear of the Abyss: Healing the Wounds of Shame & Perfectionism7.1 - Aleta Edwards The Caricature of Love7.2 - Hervey Cleckley Making Sense of People: Decoding the Mysteries of Personality7.3 - Samuel Barondes Dabrowski's Theory...