Agreed.Menna said:Lets say this person has come from a family of yellers and is more forceful in nature then you are and doesn't respond to words without a tone behind them. Sometimes a raise in voice or slight power is suitable for another person on a lower level (might make you feel uncomfortable) so you can protect yourself and continue on your path without disruption from them. Sometimes the expression of anger is a regular act for others-viewed as normal. THen you can get into the different levels of expression of anger such as body language, facial expression, words, tone, volume, physical anger projected to another. The first four might be useful in a situation to navigate through ones life. Going down to someones level for a split second so you can remain at yours.
There is still a difference, as was already stated by Alada, between controlling anger or being immersed in it. Sort of the same as using fire intentionally (as in so-called "controlled burns") vs. feeding a wildfire already raging.